Her parents messed her up pretty badly. They've been gaslighting her to undermine her trust in you and although it was only that one time the porn she found somehow validated the the distrust her parents have been trying to instill in her against you. I'd be willing to bet that her parents have been brainwashing her against numerous people in her life for most like her entire life. She probably won't get any better without professional help. I'd also be will to bet that not only are one or both of her parents narcissists but it's possible that one or both of them may even have borderline personality disorder. No offense, but I wouldn't be surprised if she had BPD. I bet her whole family system is probably about brainwashing, invalidation of her feelings and her parents trying to control her. No wonder she has trust issues.
I'm guessing she needs to get help and detach from her manipulative family.
Is my girlfriend normal?
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Her parents messed her up pretty badly. They've been gaslighting her to undermine her trust in you and although it was only that one time the porn she found somehow validated the the distrust her parents have been trying to instill in her against you. I'd be willing to bet that her parents have been brainwashing her against numerous people in her life for most like her entire life. She probably won't get any better without professional help. I'd also be will to bet that not only are one or both of her parents narcissists but it's possible that one or both of them may even have borderline personality disorder. No offense, but I wouldn't be surprised if she had BPD. I bet her whole family system is probably about brainwashing, invalidation of her feelings and her parents trying to control her. No wonder she has trust issues.
I'm guessing she needs to get help and detach from her manipulative family.