Is my girlfriend faking her sexual desire for me?

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My girlfriend never makes the first move in bed. Most of the time, I do all the foreplay work. She just lies there, watching me eat her up. I don't always get a blowjob, just about 30% of the time.

When we do phone sex, I pitch in most of the content. It feels like she just listens to what I say. Speaking only in groans or unnecessary moans.

I feel like she's just "riding along" my sexual tendencies.
She says I turn her on but I think she's lying. She tries to
put an impression that she's enjoying our sexual activities
but I know she's just pretending.

I strongly believe that sex is a two-way thing - both you and your partner should truly enjoy it. I wouldn't want to
subject my girlfriend into something she doesn't enjoy.
I love her, after all.

I'm just afraid my observations on her sexual intentions turn out to be true.

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago | pl

    Some people express themselves differently than others. She could be in the moment and not able to fully express it. It's like eating good food. Some people roll their eyes or close them, some people 'Mmm', some people smile, and sometimes you plain can't tell they like it. She may be the type who 'eats' it if it's there, loves it, even daydreams about it- but doesn't need to shoot someone to get it. No matter who or what the hell is cookin it. She could even have more fun thinking of it than doing it- no consequences that way. "What if I don't react the way the cook likes?" or "What if I'm too fat?" are some issues that could block her full ability to enjoy the actual act.

    That's just one food example. I could use another?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    maybe she's shy.

    talk to her, ask her what she wants. if she can't even tell you that then perhaps she's too young emotionally to have a sexual relationship

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  • goldfishlover
    11 years ago | pl

    Perhaps she's just a very shy, submissive person. After sex, does she ever thank you or act appreciative? I've never had sex before, still a virgin, but I've read my fair share of erotica to understand that not all partners react the same way during sexual activities. Either way, I hope you get everything worked out between the two of you. Good luck!

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  • chole
    11 years ago | pl

    Maybe she's actually a-sexual but likes you enough to fake it. Or wants something from you and is faking her sexual desire to stay in a relationship that may benefit her.

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