I just want to reiterate that I don't agree with any insults made here, whether I saw them or not. I didn't feel like I made that clear in the first comment. I don't think you meant to be offensive in your original post.
I think what may have irritated people is the fact that you made a list of attributes that supposedly point to possibly being gay. Not only does that support gay stereotypes, but to me only one of those points is actually important - what he tells you about his own sexuality. Like I said in my other comment, that's the only thing that matters. He's your friend, so trust what he tells you and don't scrutinize him behind his back with friends. And if he's lying, let him tell you the truth on his terms instead of finding out through detective work - after all, it's his sexuality. Let him deal with it at his own pace.
Is my ex-boyfriend gay?
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I just want to reiterate that I don't agree with any insults made here, whether I saw them or not. I didn't feel like I made that clear in the first comment. I don't think you meant to be offensive in your original post.
I think what may have irritated people is the fact that you made a list of attributes that supposedly point to possibly being gay. Not only does that support gay stereotypes, but to me only one of those points is actually important - what he tells you about his own sexuality. Like I said in my other comment, that's the only thing that matters. He's your friend, so trust what he tells you and don't scrutinize him behind his back with friends. And if he's lying, let him tell you the truth on his terms instead of finding out through detective work - after all, it's his sexuality. Let him deal with it at his own pace.