Is my ex-boyfriend gay?

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  • -WhySoSerious-
    11 years ago | pl

    If a man is attracted to other men, then he is gay. The way a man walks or sits, does not determine his sexual orientation.

    Even though a lot of gay men act girly sometimes, that is not what made them gay. What made them gay is the moment they looked at a man and said "gosh I'm attracted to him."

    So, if a gay man hasn't come out, it doesn't make him less gay that the other gay men who came out.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago | pl

      "So, if a gay man hasn't come out, it doesn't make him less gay that the other gay men who came out."

      That's what I was wondering about.

      I just have a feeling (we were living together for two years, I know him) that he is attracted to guys.

      The things that I listed were the some of the typical things that other people who know him have brought up to me, so it got me wondering. I thought that other people would relate to those examples. I didn't expect I would be called names and accused of being a homophobe. [I've deleted the more ignorant comments, that's why you don't see them. but i did]

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        11 years ago | pl

        you're confusing "gay" with "sexually active homosexual"

        if a man choses to not be gay then let him keep that choice.

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