Is my bf controlling

He does this because he cares about you and doesn't wan't anyone else to have you. However it is very controlling, and you should just discuss it, he could just have trust issues

He is not behaving in a healthy way for your relationship and you know it. It's only a matter of time until you get fed up with this. However I think that as you have not said much you have given him reasons to act this way.

Compromise! For example, you let him put it in your ass he lets you go clubbing!

From the way you've been speaking in the comments I'm not surprised. Maybe he should be with someone who respects the relationship more.

Yes, he's controlling.
However judging from your other posts and the fact that you stated that you are a stripper, I can see why he may be concerned. It's a bit confusing to me because I do not see why he is ok with being with a stripper when he cannot tolerate you going out.

I think people who are controlling are very insecure.
In a healthy relationship, both partners have lives outside of each other. Dependency and neediness are awful qualities to have. You should disregard what anyone else says and do what you want to do.

So in conclusion I can see why someone feels uncomfortable with their stripper girlfriend, but maybe if they feel that way they shouldn't be together. He needs to either be ok with it, or not.

Also controlling behavior shows a lack of trust and why would anyone be with someone they do not trust?

I'm not getting both sides of the story, so I wouldn't know. You could be controlling as well for all I know.

Based off your comment "R u gonna make me squirt", maybe he should be dumping you. I'd be a little 'controlling' if I saw my boyfriend disrespect my relationship like that.

ho fo sho