3 years with the same boy and we've never even had an argument I thought like you for a while but then he came along so suddenly and we just matched up so well. Sometimes we get slightly annoyed with each other but we just tell the other person right away and sort it out instead of letting it get worse and grow into a fight. I have a better relationship with my boyfriend than with anyone else, no one encouraged me like he does. And if I cry in front of him it hurts him so much to see me sad that he ends up tearing up too, and same goes for if he cries I end up crying. But we are the super annoying clingy couple so I'm just glad my two best friends are dating too. It's easy to become bitter and give up on love but it doesn't mean love doesn't exist or isn't worth it. My parents got divorced but they never really got along that well anyway they were just attracted to each other and that was pretty much it. But my best friend's parents were together from the time they were 17 and they are still mad about each other after nearly 30 years. And my grandparents were together from the time my grandpa was 14 and my grandma was 12! They cook together and end up throwing flour at each other and laughing and then dancing together in the kitchen. True love does exist but it does take work, it takes a lot of communication for my boyfriend and I to never argue. It is worth it to have someone I can take on the world together with things are not as scary when you have someone else to lean on and who can lean on you for support. So you can give up before you have even tried (you sound pretty young) or you can be patient and try to mature a little and let go of your bitterness. I never dated until I was 18 nearly 19! it's totally normal to not have a relationship until your mid twenties even! it's ok.
Is love worth it?
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3 years with the same boy and we've never even had an argument I thought like you for a while but then he came along so suddenly and we just matched up so well. Sometimes we get slightly annoyed with each other but we just tell the other person right away and sort it out instead of letting it get worse and grow into a fight. I have a better relationship with my boyfriend than with anyone else, no one encouraged me like he does. And if I cry in front of him it hurts him so much to see me sad that he ends up tearing up too, and same goes for if he cries I end up crying. But we are the super annoying clingy couple so I'm just glad my two best friends are dating too. It's easy to become bitter and give up on love but it doesn't mean love doesn't exist or isn't worth it. My parents got divorced but they never really got along that well anyway they were just attracted to each other and that was pretty much it. But my best friend's parents were together from the time they were 17 and they are still mad about each other after nearly 30 years. And my grandparents were together from the time my grandpa was 14 and my grandma was 12! They cook together and end up throwing flour at each other and laughing and then dancing together in the kitchen. True love does exist but it does take work, it takes a lot of communication for my boyfriend and I to never argue. It is worth it to have someone I can take on the world together with things are not as scary when you have someone else to lean on and who can lean on you for support. So you can give up before you have even tried (you sound pretty young) or you can be patient and try to mature a little and let go of your bitterness. I never dated until I was 18 nearly 19! it's totally normal to not have a relationship until your mid twenties even! it's ok.