It's about building emotional connections, and the way to do it is by having charisma, proper body language, and a nice smile or appearance.
After working for a while, I realized the majority of people only do for those they "like". So building a strong connection with your co-workers and bosses in a way that isn't desperate, but more relaxed, then you'll move up the ladder quickly just for being well liked; and even more so if you're liked and can do your job efficiently.
Emotional connections are powerful. It keeps people in relationships that are completely terrible. It prevents horrible co-workers from getting fired. It promotes bad employees over good ones. It gets others invited out, and more.
Some people are just naturally charismatic, and other have to develop the skill for it. The nicest of people can move up in the world if they can learn to talk to others comfortably. However, you got those who develop these social skills for the wrong reason. For example, how do you think scumbags get girls? Not by being assholes from the get-go. They charm first, say exactly what they think every woman wants to hear, and build a strong connection before mistreating them.
As annoying as it is, this is what it comes down to in many situations.
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This is just my opinion.
It's about building emotional connections, and the way to do it is by having charisma, proper body language, and a nice smile or appearance.
After working for a while, I realized the majority of people only do for those they "like". So building a strong connection with your co-workers and bosses in a way that isn't desperate, but more relaxed, then you'll move up the ladder quickly just for being well liked; and even more so if you're liked and can do your job efficiently.
Emotional connections are powerful. It keeps people in relationships that are completely terrible. It prevents horrible co-workers from getting fired. It promotes bad employees over good ones. It gets others invited out, and more.
Some people are just naturally charismatic, and other have to develop the skill for it. The nicest of people can move up in the world if they can learn to talk to others comfortably. However, you got those who develop these social skills for the wrong reason. For example, how do you think scumbags get girls? Not by being assholes from the get-go. They charm first, say exactly what they think every woman wants to hear, and build a strong connection before mistreating them.
As annoying as it is, this is what it comes down to in many situations.