Is its normal that i don't like the feeling of an orgasm?

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I'm an 18 year old girl, and all of my girl friends masturbate. They taught me a trick to use running water instead of a vibrator to try masturbating for the first time, I turned on my bath tub and I did what the told me and it worked but the feeling of masturbating is REALLY intense in a way I dont think I like. When my boy friend tries to finger me or go down on me I don't like it and touching myself doesnt feel good either. Why don't I like the feeling when everyone else does??

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  • shinno
    13 years ago | pl

    i know plenty of woman who don't like to masturbate because they feel empty after they do it. could this be the way you feel while and after? if that is the case you probly just need to be love while your having sex, making love. whatever you wanna call it.

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  • hotchickie81
    13 years ago | pl

    Running water? I heard it's best with a Jacuzzi - try the jets.

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  • sydney11393
    13 years ago | pl

    Rejection of one's own genitalia is a dislike/detachment from one's self. You have an inside self love issue you need to deal with then you will be able to masturbate and enjoy it. It's guiltless and fantastic, it's making love to yourself, you can love and trust yourself like no one else and you can always control what happens.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    O_O how could you not like the feeling??

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