4. There is a large Spanish speaking population in the United States. Well, we're neighbors, what do you expect? Why don't you go to the store and buy a book and try to learn basic Spanish? Instead of judging them as an outsider, try learning a little bit about them. You have said before that you think they have an easier time than we do. Are you kidding? They are living in a foreign land where they are judged constantly and they can't even speak our language to defend themselves. They are paid far less than we are for hard, manual labor and they quite often have a lower standard of living. Do you honestly think it's fair to hate them because they came here to try to make a better life for their family? Wouldn't you do the same for yours? They're not aliens, they're people like you and me. And they are here to stay, whether you like it or not. I understand why you are upset that they play loud music late at night into the morning. That would annoy anyone. Learn how to ask them to turn their music down, or talk to your landlord if they are in the same building. Hell, call the police and have them ask them to turn the music down. And start looking around for more family friendly places for you and Bethany to live. I understand money is a factor, but maybe look at renting a little two bedroom house somewhere. My boyfriend and I just rented a house on a private lot for $50 more a month than the one bedroom apartment we've been living in. I can't wait to get away from the noise of the pizza shop downstairs!
5. It is unacceptable to call women sluts, bitches, whores, and cunts. It is also unacceptable to make demeaning remarks about premenstrual syndrome. Would you want someone talking to Bethany that way? Would you ever say anything like that to her? I sincerely hope not. I acknowledge that I have called you names in return, and it was unacceptable on my part too, but I became very frustrated with you. Why I care at all, I have no idea. Why I have come back to this website for months on end to argue with you, I have no idea. I could and should have walked away and let it go but something about it kept me coming back.
I think that's about it. Again, for what it's worth, best of luck to you, and I apologize for anything I've said that may have been out of line, and hopefully you will do the same.
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4. There is a large Spanish speaking population in the United States. Well, we're neighbors, what do you expect? Why don't you go to the store and buy a book and try to learn basic Spanish? Instead of judging them as an outsider, try learning a little bit about them. You have said before that you think they have an easier time than we do. Are you kidding? They are living in a foreign land where they are judged constantly and they can't even speak our language to defend themselves. They are paid far less than we are for hard, manual labor and they quite often have a lower standard of living. Do you honestly think it's fair to hate them because they came here to try to make a better life for their family? Wouldn't you do the same for yours? They're not aliens, they're people like you and me. And they are here to stay, whether you like it or not. I understand why you are upset that they play loud music late at night into the morning. That would annoy anyone. Learn how to ask them to turn their music down, or talk to your landlord if they are in the same building. Hell, call the police and have them ask them to turn the music down. And start looking around for more family friendly places for you and Bethany to live. I understand money is a factor, but maybe look at renting a little two bedroom house somewhere. My boyfriend and I just rented a house on a private lot for $50 more a month than the one bedroom apartment we've been living in. I can't wait to get away from the noise of the pizza shop downstairs!
5. It is unacceptable to call women sluts, bitches, whores, and cunts. It is also unacceptable to make demeaning remarks about premenstrual syndrome. Would you want someone talking to Bethany that way? Would you ever say anything like that to her? I sincerely hope not. I acknowledge that I have called you names in return, and it was unacceptable on my part too, but I became very frustrated with you. Why I care at all, I have no idea. Why I have come back to this website for months on end to argue with you, I have no idea. I could and should have walked away and let it go but something about it kept me coming back.
I think that's about it. Again, for what it's worth, best of luck to you, and I apologize for anything I've said that may have been out of line, and hopefully you will do the same.