Is it wrong if i get jealous when the guy i like talks to other girls more

So, basically I've been sort of talking to this guy, but not like, "talking," because it isn't your typical date talking and he lives in another state and between us things are complicated. It's been almost 2 years and I like him a lot and actually want a relationship with him but he's confusing and not very verbal about that stuff so I'm just being patient. But aside from that I'm asking because he has a lot of female friends and I know they like him, like come on it's obvious. He's beautiful. But.. I just get so upset when he talks to them even if they are just friends because in a way I feel like I'm kind of being betrayed but also maybe a bit overreacting? It's just because he says stuff to me sometimes that makes me feel special and like he actually means it all, and that the feelings are mutual, but then I see how he talks with these other stupid girls and I'm just like "oh..."
He isn't a f***boy or anything and he hasn't been in many relationships but I'm still just like, I don't know.. it just upsets me a lot and half the time we go days without talking almost as if he doesn't even care. But I know he talks to others, just not me. And I don't really understand because he told me he liked me but he doesn't act like it all the time. I just want to know if I'm in the wrong with being jealous and getting upset over him talking to these other girls and giving them the attention that I want, or if I'm just stupid and need to give it up, even though I don't want to because he's really important to me.

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  • ojimpu

    You remind me of Candice from P&F

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  • yasss

    It's normal to get jealous, just don't dwell on it. Good luck!

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