What kind of place is this where people say that this is OK? These kinds of things weren't exaggerations. If a 250 pound man slapped you, you would fall too! This kind of abuse can lead to emotional and mental scarring. I mean it's obvious in you, because you think it's alright for him to do this. My dad would never slap me, EVER. Your parents shouldn't have either. There are much better ways to discipline a child!
So a couple slaps equals abuse to you? Are you the type to get a call from an ex one time and get a harassment charge filed? I was taught to never interrupt my parents when they are speaking and to do my chores so I never got slapped for those reasons. Setting something on fire or constantly disrespecting my elders, yes I got physical discipline. By the way, I am 6'4 230lbs now and grew to be a strong, respectful guy who wouldn't slap a girl for a mistake once or twice, but constantly? I guarantee you that this girl does not interrupt him any longer and does her chores.
I'm just saying it's a dumb reason to hit a child. A child should be able to understand the relation between his deeds and the consequences. Meaning if you tell a child not to do something and you punch it; It wont't do it again... As long as you are watching. As soon as your gone the child will do it just because it can. Because it never learned what was wrong about it. It just learned not to get punched. But of course the parents wearen't able to tell the child what was wrong about it. Because THEY never learned either.
Read my above comment that I made to @squeallikeasacofpigs because this should give you an idea of what I really mean. There were different forms and levels of punishment I received. If it was serious but not the end of the world, I would get a couple slaps of the belt on the face of my hand because I seemed to not be able to not break things in the house because of playing sports indoors lol. I never want to see a child cry or show signs of abuse but I do feel that some forms of physcial discipline, depending on the offense and how repeatedly they committed it that they deserve it.
Is it wrong for a father to slap their daughter that is 14 years old?
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What kind of place is this where people say that this is OK? These kinds of things weren't exaggerations. If a 250 pound man slapped you, you would fall too! This kind of abuse can lead to emotional and mental scarring. I mean it's obvious in you, because you think it's alright for him to do this. My dad would never slap me, EVER. Your parents shouldn't have either. There are much better ways to discipline a child!
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So a couple slaps equals abuse to you? Are you the type to get a call from an ex one time and get a harassment charge filed? I was taught to never interrupt my parents when they are speaking and to do my chores so I never got slapped for those reasons. Setting something on fire or constantly disrespecting my elders, yes I got physical discipline. By the way, I am 6'4 230lbs now and grew to be a strong, respectful guy who wouldn't slap a girl for a mistake once or twice, but constantly? I guarantee you that this girl does not interrupt him any longer and does her chores.
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If your child does something it shouldn't do. Just shoot it.
I guarantee you it won't do it again.
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I have dealt with people like you. You go all the way or you do not go at all. No compromise. Just follow the lead I suppose.
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I'm just saying it's a dumb reason to hit a child. A child should be able to understand the relation between his deeds and the consequences. Meaning if you tell a child not to do something and you punch it; It wont't do it again... As long as you are watching. As soon as your gone the child will do it just because it can. Because it never learned what was wrong about it. It just learned not to get punched. But of course the parents wearen't able to tell the child what was wrong about it. Because THEY never learned either.
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Read my above comment that I made to @squeallikeasacofpigs because this should give you an idea of what I really mean. There were different forms and levels of punishment I received. If it was serious but not the end of the world, I would get a couple slaps of the belt on the face of my hand because I seemed to not be able to not break things in the house because of playing sports indoors lol. I never want to see a child cry or show signs of abuse but I do feel that some forms of physcial discipline, depending on the offense and how repeatedly they committed it that they deserve it.