Everyone puts their pants on one leg at a time. No one is perfect. Is this person seemingly unattainable to you because YOU say so, or because THEY do? It might all be in your head, but if that's the case, then you'll never deserve them because your confidence is too low. You'll put them on a pedestal and constantly wonder if you're worthy, which isn't healthy and could possibly lead to more traumatic results like cheating or manipulation down the road. If in the opposite case, if they treat you like you're not worthy, then they aren't worth chasing anyway. Why not be with someone attainable who can be your friend as well as your partner, who makes you feel important and interesting? Trust me, it's much more satisfying to date a 6 or 7 who adores you, than a 10 with whom you have nothing in common with and makes you feel unworthy.
Is it worth chasing someone that you may never have a chance with
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Everyone puts their pants on one leg at a time. No one is perfect. Is this person seemingly unattainable to you because YOU say so, or because THEY do? It might all be in your head, but if that's the case, then you'll never deserve them because your confidence is too low. You'll put them on a pedestal and constantly wonder if you're worthy, which isn't healthy and could possibly lead to more traumatic results like cheating or manipulation down the road. If in the opposite case, if they treat you like you're not worthy, then they aren't worth chasing anyway. Why not be with someone attainable who can be your friend as well as your partner, who makes you feel important and interesting? Trust me, it's much more satisfying to date a 6 or 7 who adores you, than a 10 with whom you have nothing in common with and makes you feel unworthy.