Is it weird to talk about sex so casually?

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I don't know why but people frequently get pissed at me for small talking bout sex and shit.

Like I'll ask guys at the gym who are well hung if their wife likes it or I'll ask older guys how their sex drive and erections are going or whether their wife is getting tight. I ask women what brands are good for dildos, what they prefer semen to taste like, how deep they like oral and things like that. I ask my coworkers for porn recommendations, tips on how to please women in bed, what areas of their penis are sensative, if they do prostate massages. I'll sit next to a guy on the bus and ask him about edging, what kinda lube to use, if he likes anal ect.

Some people get pissed at me just for asking questions and discussing these things and I don't know why. Am I missing something?

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Sexualized_Polycheate_Worm

4 years ago | pl

that sounds incredibly fucking annoying dude

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  But why? And even then, people should just politely say they prefer not to answer. Like girls when I ask what brand of dildo or vibrator they like, they get SOOOOO pissed. Its just uncalled for.
  
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  - GaelicPotato
    
    4 years ago | pl
    
    Or, you know, you act like a decent human being, accept that you are the the sole person who prefers this as small talk and actually accept that most if not all people are not at all comfortable. You're already aware, why even still do it?
    
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momwatcher69

4 years ago | pl

Talking about sex, is fine, and normal. But doing it with co-workers, strangers, guys in a locker room, is NOT normal.
Have some manners, and don't offend others. They will just think you're a moron, or a "weirdo". What if there are children, women, or elderly folks, within hearing distance ?!
Don't be a dick, while talking about your dick....get it ?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  I don't see the problem. A lot of times I am totally curious or just want advice anyways. I think sex is a great conversation starter with strangers.
  
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  - NoLifer
    
    4 years ago
    
    Glenn quagmire is that you?
    
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    - RoseIsabella
      
      4 years ago
      
      HAHAHA! I hate that guy!
      
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charli.m

4 years ago | pl

Brain cells. You're missing brain cells.

This is why I call you a fucking retard.

How did you supposedly live to 20 and not understand basic human interactions?

Did no one teach you about privacy?

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- NoLifer
  
  4 years ago
  
  Hahahahaha 😄
  
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Cliche1234

4 years ago | pl

Can't blame all those people for getting pissed at you. It's common sense every sane people would react like that. I would get creeped the fuck out and feel uncomfortable as fuck if you asked me those questions especially since you're just a random, creepy stranger I have to unfortunately sit next to in a bus.

People like you are the reason I can't stand people who are so obsessed with sex.

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- RoseIsabella
  
  4 years ago
  
  Ditto!
  
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[Old Memory]

4 years ago

This has to be a troll. There's no way this person doesn't understand how unbelievably cringy he's being.

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- [Old Memory]
  
  4 years ago
  
  From the replies, I think it's real, unfortunately. I hope I never have to experience the humiliation of running into anyone like this person in real life.
  
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  - raisinbran
    
    4 years ago
    
    I would find talking to an evangelical Christian way more awkward and cringy... talking to this creep would just be a joke to me.
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Cringy? Sex makes for great conversations sometimes.
  
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BlackCandle

4 years ago

It's okay but consider others at least. No one, it seems, is into talking about it as much as you.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  What do you mean? I don't see why its any worse than talking about the game last night or some shit. Do you really think nobody likes sex as much as me? I do find it very interesting.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    4 years ago
    
    People enjoy their privacy!
    
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RoseIsabella

4 years ago

If people don't like you, or think you're a creep it's your own damn fault for making them uncomfortable by acting like a creeper to begin with. You only have yourself to blame for acting like a slimy creeper.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Acting like a creeper for what? I want to know about peoples sexuality. Why is that such a bad thing? How is anything I said in the post creepy?
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    4 years ago
    
    Wanting to know about people's sexuality isn't, logically and objectively speaking, weird or wrong at all.
    
    The problem is, asking about it will come across as creepy, obnoxious and crude to the majority. That's just how most people, including myself feel.
    
    The taboo/shame associated with sex is intertwined into people's thinking from deep and old cultural and religious roots. It's not as simple as you seem to think, or maybe as it should be.
    
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    - McBean
      
      4 years ago
      
      Exactly. You have hit upon the cultural dynamics that cause the perpetuation of prudishness and its contribution to neurosis of the psyche.
      
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    - RoseIsabella
      
      4 years ago
      
      I'm giving you a thumbs up, and I agree with you for the most part, but I don't think that shame is as much of a thing as you might think. I think the thing here is about privacy, and personal boundaries. Sex is an awesome thing, and like many awesome, and special things sex is a private matter for the majority of people. It's a problem that OP lacks respect for other people, and places his so called curiosity above the generally accepted boundaries that most of society comprehends.
      
      By interacting with others the way he chooses to do OP us practically begging for an ass whooping, because his lack of respect for what are generally understood boundaries shows an innate selfishness, and disregard for others.
      
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    4 years ago
    
    Watch this video.
    
    https://youtu.be/6WcnxaNQrOk
    
    If you asked me that shit in the workplace I would report you to HR. Honestly, you're lucky that you haven't had your ass beat down for sexually harassing people. If I saw someone assault a guy like you I would not help, and I'd tell the cops that I didn't see a thing.
    
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    - charli.m
      
      4 years ago
      
      You had to take it to that last sentence and be just as fucked in the head as OP...
      
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        4 years ago
        
        I see what you're saying, but the way that sexual harassment feels is so awful. I hope that OP is just another stupid troll, but if he's sincere then he's constantly harassing people, and that disturbs me.
        
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        charli.m
        
        4 years ago
        
        Never denied that.
        
        Doesn't make violence ok.
        
        Read your bible again, you need a refresher.
        
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    - raisinbran
      
      4 years ago
      
      I dunno, I would help him if he was being assaulted just for saying creepy things and not touching anyone. Obviously a mental patient in need of help.
      
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      - Cuntsiclestick
        
        4 years ago
        
        If he did that in the ghetto ass town of mine, he'd definitely get his ass kicked. The people here don't tolerate unwanted shit. XD
        
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        RoseIsabella
        
        4 years ago
        
        I know it's not nice, but I rather like that.
        
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JellyBeanBandit

4 years ago

It's not so much that you're talking about sex as it is that you're asking them about personal shit.

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raisinbran

4 years ago

It's not normal that you don't know why some people get pissed. It's too intimate.

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[Old Memory]

4 years ago

Some cultures are more prudish than others, but generally, a lot of people consider sex talk to be private. It's obnoxious for you to bring it up, and it makes most people uncomfortable, so I think you should stop.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  I mean I just don't see the problem. Sex is so interesting and I want to know people's perspectives on it. And the least they could do is politely say they don't wanna answer, some people get super pissed and shit at me.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    4 years ago
    
    It's extremely disrespectful, rude and selfish for you to expect other people to share intimate details about their private lives with you.
    
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einexile

4 years ago

This isn't just annoying or weird, it's a consent problem. You are intruding on other people sexually for your own titillation and satisfaction without their consent, and this goes beyond just being rude. You're actually being sexual with them, and I think you're making a point of doing it with people you know don't want it. There are accepted ways to bring up the subject in conversation, standard leading questions, and settings where it's generally considered okay to give an extra nudge or two - and you're avoiding all these things deliberately. In short, you get off on violating people. It doesn't quite rise to the level of sexual assault, but you're trying your damnedest to get as close to that line as you can without technically crossing it.

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RavenCage

4 years ago

it's not weird to talk about sex so casually unless the people you're talking to are strangers or people you don't know well, it makes the situation uncomfortable. Make sure that the person you're talking to is in a good enough relationship with you, and if they're even comfortable talking about sex first.

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Jdlc

4 years ago

I can talk about wierd shit all day to strangers as long as they are responding. Otherwise I shut the Fuck up!!

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McBean

4 years ago

Dude, I like your attitude. Remember, this site is a good place to talk about sex with friendly people, like me.

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LloydAsher

4 years ago

Sex talking is the spice of dull conversations.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Well thanks for accepting me unlike most people! I think its a great conversation starter to ask where someone is sensitive.
  
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  - LloydAsher
    
    4 years ago
    
    PM me if you wanna go in depth
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      I can't I don't have iin gold.
      
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      - LloydAsher
        
        4 years ago
        
        Well what do you like? I like flat as a board asians.
        
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