Is it weird that he's so much older?

So I'm 20 and he's 40, is it weird? And like I don't know part if me thinks it's kinda hot that if he had kids they would be about the same age as me, i think its a weird relastionship Haha

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  • IceRed

    its not too bad.

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  • Hotdogsaregross

    Well do you like him as a person despite his age? Does he treat you well? If yes then that is all that matters. My husband is in his 40’s and I’m in my 20’s. He never had kids until he got with me so it would be interesting if he had a kid my age but it would not be a big deal.

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    • curious-bunny

      I do, I think I love him, yes for the most part, he's kind of a mean dick when he gets drunk and is emotionally hurtful otherwise he's such a sweety. But that is very true, thank you for sharing! I hope you two have a long happy marriage!

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      • RoseIsabella

        That's not good. It will probably just get worse.

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        • curious-bunny

          Yea probably but I'm willing to take that chance, should it get worse and become a problem I'll leave him, rather take the chance then spend the rest of my life thinking what if I did take it. He makes me happy so we shall see what happens!

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      • Hotdogsaregross

        Thank you I hope so too.
        I will say though that if he is hurting you emotionally then you should not deal with it. Especially if he is mean while drinking.

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        • curious-bunny

          Yea your right, it hurts but your right. I will definitly need to think on it, if I was smart I would take it to heart and agree fully but alas I am not

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