Yes exactly. You wouldn't react that way if another male just didn't like you, you'd probably accept it and move on. And you probably don't think that being "nice" would be enough to be friends with another guy either, you have to have more to offer than that and you know that. Same goes for women. Women are just people too! Treat them like people, don't pedestalize them and don't reduce them to objects or vending machines that you put "nice" coins in and expect something in return. Have some standards of your own, too. I've seen it too often that a guy will crush on virtually any girl he's around for superficial or imaginary reasons (pedestalizing again), and I've seen the same guys "strike out" with one and just move on down the line to another, it is obvious that you're not liking me for me when you tried to get with several girls in our general circle before me and after me. It's very off-putting. Even if I was interested in you, after seeing you go down a line like that would stop me from getting involved.
Is it true that morals and decency are dead?
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Yes exactly. You wouldn't react that way if another male just didn't like you, you'd probably accept it and move on. And you probably don't think that being "nice" would be enough to be friends with another guy either, you have to have more to offer than that and you know that. Same goes for women. Women are just people too! Treat them like people, don't pedestalize them and don't reduce them to objects or vending machines that you put "nice" coins in and expect something in return. Have some standards of your own, too. I've seen it too often that a guy will crush on virtually any girl he's around for superficial or imaginary reasons (pedestalizing again), and I've seen the same guys "strike out" with one and just move on down the line to another, it is obvious that you're not liking me for me when you tried to get with several girls in our general circle before me and after me. It's very off-putting. Even if I was interested in you, after seeing you go down a line like that would stop me from getting involved.