"if a guy is ... making any effort to be courteous and friendly, she will often take it as a double meaning. Some women today automatically take any niceness and friendliness from a guy as translation: I want you naked in my bed with me."
The exact same happens the other way around too though.
if a girl is making any effort to be courteous and friendly, he will often take it as a double meaning. Some men today automatically take any niceness and friendliness from a girl as translation: I want to suck your D.
Which is probably why a lot of girls feel the way you've explained.
I'm sure they are. They worry about their safety and job security, if nothing else. Smiling, nodding and letting you down easy is general practise. For comparison, how far do you think you'd get with a guy using the same tactics? Oh, you wouldn't even try most of the time because you'd have a fair fight on your hands?
Is it true that morals and decency are dead?
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"if a guy is ... making any effort to be courteous and friendly, she will often take it as a double meaning. Some women today automatically take any niceness and friendliness from a guy as translation: I want you naked in my bed with me."
The exact same happens the other way around too though.
if a girl is making any effort to be courteous and friendly, he will often take it as a double meaning. Some men today automatically take any niceness and friendliness from a girl as translation: I want to suck your D.
Which is probably why a lot of girls feel the way you've explained.
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It wasn't like that decades ago, was it? More people took things straight and trusted that the niceness they were getting was sincere, didn't they?
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No, women still to this day are basically trained to be polite and gracious at your basic acts.
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Maybe where you are, but not where I am
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https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/12/11/cat-person
I'm sure they are. They worry about their safety and job security, if nothing else. Smiling, nodding and letting you down easy is general practise. For comparison, how far do you think you'd get with a guy using the same tactics? Oh, you wouldn't even try most of the time because you'd have a fair fight on your hands?