It would seem so. It would appear that we live in a time that self absorption is the norm.
The aquisition/ownership of apple electronics, German cars & mcmansions are all that some people are interested in.
The idea of delayed gratification is now virtually non existant, they are like 6 year old kids in the sweet shop with a fistful of pocket money.
Words like hello, goodbye & thankyou dont seem to be part of people's lexicon.
People seem to think that scamming, lying & good old fashioned thieving are morally legitimate ways to earn money. The only time anyone is interested in you is if & how much money they can extract out of you.
Thankfully not everyone is like that, there are still a few good ones left.
Yeh, it's like thank you, have a nice day, hello, are words that people don't want to say anymore unless they absolutely have to. People's thinking has also gotten more superficial. Decades ago, a casheir would usually show the same gratitude towards everyone because they knew that was the right thing. Today, the cashier will only say thank you or be chatty to who they feel like being that way to, often for superficial reasons. Like a female cashier will show a smile and friendliness to someone they think is cute or hot, but then snub coldly someone that they superficially don't think looks good. They're totally off and on choosy on who to be nice to for superficial reasons. Where way back in the day, the cashier would show a more professional style of gratitude to every customer and usually be the same way with each one no matter what they looked like, etc. In other words, over the past years and decades, people especially women have gotten colder to the less attractive and warmer to the more attractive. To really good looking guys today, a woman will basically go up to them even if they've never met or spoken before, and bluntly tell them they want to jump in bed with them, where decades ago such a thing was unthinkable. But back in the day, a woman would be nicer and more courteous to a guy they did not find attractive because being nice to him anyway was still the right thing to do, they just wouldn't date him or go beyond being nice. Today, a woman is proud to be totally rude to an unattractive guy just for being unattractive. Like I said, they've gotten colder and ruder to the unattractive, and nicer, warmer, and much more assertive and direct to the attractive. It's gotten more extreme on both ends.
Whether you are attractive of not, why do you think that people who are paid to be polite to customers/depend on tips like you in that way? It's a big problem for women, too many guys just don't get it that we are being paid to do a job and be nice to you and it doesn't mean anything else except 'this is my job'. Trust me, we'd rather tell most of you to fuck off but we'd get fired or make no money that way. Guys who chat up women at work are generally seen as pieces of shit because we are trapped and have to be nice. It's a scummy thing to do.
Come onnnn guys usually more crueler when it comes to being rude to (unattractive) women, i mean it's definitely not a good thing that cashiers treat their customers like that but you cannot just blame the woman you have to consider the whole situation and the circumstances.
Is it true that morals and decency are dead?
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It would seem so. It would appear that we live in a time that self absorption is the norm.
The aquisition/ownership of apple electronics, German cars & mcmansions are all that some people are interested in.
The idea of delayed gratification is now virtually non existant, they are like 6 year old kids in the sweet shop with a fistful of pocket money.
Words like hello, goodbye & thankyou dont seem to be part of people's lexicon.
People seem to think that scamming, lying & good old fashioned thieving are morally legitimate ways to earn money. The only time anyone is interested in you is if & how much money they can extract out of you.
Thankfully not everyone is like that, there are still a few good ones left.
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Yeh, it's like thank you, have a nice day, hello, are words that people don't want to say anymore unless they absolutely have to. People's thinking has also gotten more superficial. Decades ago, a casheir would usually show the same gratitude towards everyone because they knew that was the right thing. Today, the cashier will only say thank you or be chatty to who they feel like being that way to, often for superficial reasons. Like a female cashier will show a smile and friendliness to someone they think is cute or hot, but then snub coldly someone that they superficially don't think looks good. They're totally off and on choosy on who to be nice to for superficial reasons. Where way back in the day, the cashier would show a more professional style of gratitude to every customer and usually be the same way with each one no matter what they looked like, etc. In other words, over the past years and decades, people especially women have gotten colder to the less attractive and warmer to the more attractive. To really good looking guys today, a woman will basically go up to them even if they've never met or spoken before, and bluntly tell them they want to jump in bed with them, where decades ago such a thing was unthinkable. But back in the day, a woman would be nicer and more courteous to a guy they did not find attractive because being nice to him anyway was still the right thing to do, they just wouldn't date him or go beyond being nice. Today, a woman is proud to be totally rude to an unattractive guy just for being unattractive. Like I said, they've gotten colder and ruder to the unattractive, and nicer, warmer, and much more assertive and direct to the attractive. It's gotten more extreme on both ends.
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Whether you are attractive of not, why do you think that people who are paid to be polite to customers/depend on tips like you in that way? It's a big problem for women, too many guys just don't get it that we are being paid to do a job and be nice to you and it doesn't mean anything else except 'this is my job'. Trust me, we'd rather tell most of you to fuck off but we'd get fired or make no money that way. Guys who chat up women at work are generally seen as pieces of shit because we are trapped and have to be nice. It's a scummy thing to do.
Come onnnn guys usually more crueler when it comes to being rude to (unattractive) women, i mean it's definitely not a good thing that cashiers treat their customers like that but you cannot just blame the woman you have to consider the whole situation and the circumstances.
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