Is it true that morals and decency are dead?

Hearing that and other similar things everywhere is definitely becoming a more common and acceptable thing now

I don't know who gave you a minus 1 for your response, I just gave you a point and brought it back to 0. You're response really makes alot of sense when you think about it. If someone is cold or unfriendly to you, if you're really a nice guy, then you don't question her unfriendliness. If you ask a woman why she's being unfriendly, that would then make you sound like you deserve a woman, right? If you're nice to a woman and then question her for not being friendly back, that would automatically make it look like you think she owes herself to you, right?

Yeh, it's like thank you, have a nice day, hello, are words that people don't want to say anymore unless they absolutely have to. People's thinking has also gotten more superficial. Decades ago, a casheir would usually show the same gratitude towards everyone because they knew that was the right thing. Today, the cashier will only say thank you or be chatty to who they feel like being that way to, often for superficial reasons. Like a female cashier will show a smile and friendliness to someone they think is cute or hot, but then snub coldly someone that they superficially don't think looks good. They're totally off and on choosy on who to be nice to for superficial reasons. Where way back in the day, the cashier would show a more professional style of gratitude to every customer and usually be the same way with each one no matter what they looked like, etc. In other words, over the past years and decades, people especially women have gotten colder to the less attractive and warmer to the more attractive. To really good looking guys today, a woman will basically go up to them even if they've never met or spoken before, and bluntly tell them they want to jump in bed with them, where decades ago such a thing was unthinkable. But back in the day, a woman would be nicer and more courteous to a guy they did not find attractive because being nice to him anyway was still the right thing to do, they just wouldn't date him or go beyond being nice. Today, a woman is proud to be totally rude to an unattractive guy just for being unattractive. Like I said, they've gotten colder and ruder to the unattractive, and nicer, warmer, and much more assertive and direct to the attractive. It's gotten more extreme on both ends.

People probably are ruder in the cities than somewhere rural, but now in the internet age, even people way off the beaten path are well aware of the ways of people today. People in small towns and somewhere rural are probably also more wary and nervous of outsiders than they were a long time ago simply because of them knowing how the world has changed so much and that any outsider now could potentially be trouble.

Another change today is that if a guy is holding a door for a woman or making any effort to be courteous and friendly, she will often take it as a double meaning. Some women today automatically take any niceness and friendliness from a guy as translation: I want you naked in my bed with me. Decades ago when a guy would show the same kinds of niceness, the women actually took it as him actually just trying to be a decent person.