Not servant wives. Women who CHOOSE to be housewives are very attractive to us traditionalist males. I was raised by my mother and father, mostly my mother because my father worked to keep his kids fed and happy.
If she wants to be a housewife and I want to be a career breadwinner. how can you judge two adults doing the best for their joint lives?
What you are probably thinking of are abusive husbands and wives. Something we can both agree that's bad. Being abusive is also the easiest way to get found and beat the fuck up by your neighbors because you abuse your wife.
I want my kids to be raised in the same fashion as I was raised. Nothing wrong with my upbringing most would call it normal.
Well, noooo, I'm not thinking of abuse. If she chooses to be a housewife that's different, but...if she had a change of heart and wanted a job or to go back to school, would you "allow" it, or insist she stay home because that's what YOU want, even if you knew she'd be very unhappy?
My own mom was a housewife, and my father was the bread winner and set in his ways. They had the traditional roles for a long while. But she got restless and decided she wanted to work part time. My father was against it, but put his ego aside and she got her little job and was very happy. The marriage didn't suffer, and she still did the housework and raised me.
Is it true once a women turns 30 she's no longer attractive?
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Not servant wives. Women who CHOOSE to be housewives are very attractive to us traditionalist males. I was raised by my mother and father, mostly my mother because my father worked to keep his kids fed and happy.
If she wants to be a housewife and I want to be a career breadwinner. how can you judge two adults doing the best for their joint lives?
What you are probably thinking of are abusive husbands and wives. Something we can both agree that's bad. Being abusive is also the easiest way to get found and beat the fuck up by your neighbors because you abuse your wife.
I want my kids to be raised in the same fashion as I was raised. Nothing wrong with my upbringing most would call it normal.
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Well, noooo, I'm not thinking of abuse. If she chooses to be a housewife that's different, but...if she had a change of heart and wanted a job or to go back to school, would you "allow" it, or insist she stay home because that's what YOU want, even if you knew she'd be very unhappy?
My own mom was a housewife, and my father was the bread winner and set in his ways. They had the traditional roles for a long while. But she got restless and decided she wanted to work part time. My father was against it, but put his ego aside and she got her little job and was very happy. The marriage didn't suffer, and she still did the housework and raised me.
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If she wants to do it, and doesnt create a scheduling problem or a financial one then fine.
If it does start a problem we can always talk it out.