Is it too late to change?

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I am a male that cannot stop dressing as a female !This has been going on for about 40 years ,the last 12 years or it ,I have dressed completly enfemme ! I made a mistake that is well known with crossdressers ! I tried not to tell anyone , and I thought if I got married ,it would go away ! Boy was I ever in denial? After a handful of years not dressing enfemme ,it came back with a vengeance .The clothes were more expensive and a lot more feminine ! I was buying glamorous evening or coctail dresses ,dresses and skirts that shape the body in all the right places . I even went and started taking breast growth pills. My measurements went from being a 38-32-38 male physique ,to a very feminine 45-29-40 figure !Every night I dream or waking up with a vagina !My penis has gotten so small from the estrogen ,that all I need to wear is a thong to keep what is left out of sight !Pictures of me dressed enfemme have been sent to genetic girls that say I am a hot T-Girl ! I saw a dr a year ago ,and I lied to him because my wife was present !He asked me if I wanted to become a woman ,and I told him no !I think about it daily ! I even go to stores such as the Fashion Bug to buy feminine clothes !I am reaching 50 and am wondering if it would be too late for me to have a sex change? I couldn't afford it before !

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago | pl

    If it is what's right for you, I say go for it. :) I don't think you're too old though I would say since you've hit middle age go get moving on it while your body is still strong and healthy. The earlier you get surgeries the easier recovery is.

    And you shouldn't feel ashamed or as though you need to hide who you are. Let the narrow minded people think what they will, you will win in the end because you will know yourself better than they will ever know themselves.

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  • Desere
    13 years ago | pl

    To Gurll , Every day I am dressed as a girl ! I wear panties ,bra , and pantyhose every day without even thinking about it, I just do it as a daily ritual . The panty hose are Caffiene Tights that eliminate the build up of cellulite on my legs , more women should try it, they would love the results ! I just can't wear all the feminine clothes that I would like to wear because of my job ! Very soon , I am expecting things to turn around for me !And yes, I do find it very rewarding becoming a female !

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    becom a girl its awesomeee

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  • loveboots
    13 years ago | pl

    You are actually at a typical age, and from your description you are the most common type of person who seeks sex reassignment, fetish-based male-to-female TS. You should seek counseling with a psychiatric professional who works with transgender people. If you are married and especially if you have kids, you need to consider the impact your transition will have on them. But lying to them about it is not a solution.

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    • Desere
      13 years ago | pl

      Loveboots , I have had a psychologist for almost three years. My dr has found me a therapist ,because she thinks that I have without a doubt a gender identity disirder .She has me diagnosed as a transexual woman that may be the result of failure to seperate myself from my mother inb my early boyhood ! I will find out the therapists diagnosis when I see him or her this month !This to me is not a fantasy ,or a fetish ,this is a part of me that has been hidden from everyone from fear of rejection !I cannot keep it bottled up and or hidden any longer !

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    I don't understand what is so wrong about being a guy if your born a guy or being a girl if your born a girl. In your case, is being a guy so bad?

    I'm not gay but I was mistaken for being gay growing up and was hit on by lots of guys yet couldn't date a girl. However, I am straight and I eventually got a great girlfriend and when she left, another one after her. Sure, life would have been easier for me if I were gay but I am glad I am not.

    Which leads back to you, since it has been quite a long time perhaps you should just get a surgery and switch. I wouldn't say its normal as I refuse to think in this way but your life is your life and do what makes you happy as long as it doesn't screw up others' lives.

    However, if you start dating men when you get your change, which I think you will, tell the guys before "sleeping" with them as if I didn't know and found out after sleeping with you, I wouldn't be okay with myself. In the end, just be honest.

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