Is it that normal that i feel this way?

My boyfriend says "I love you" too much. It's irritating. I don't have a problem if he says it to me maybe once in a while, but he uses it several times a day. The phrase has lost all meaning for me, and it is about as common as hello or goodbye.

He also seems to be interested in what I'm doing at all times. I like it when people take an interest in me, but I would appreciate some privacy at times.

If I'm using the bathroom, he walks in to talk to me. If I'm on my computer, he reads the screen and starts to talk about what I'm working on. If I leave the room, he asks me where I'm going. I find it ridiculous to tell him especially if I'm about to use the bathroom.

Is it normal to be irritated by these things?

Another problem with my boyfriend is that he seems to be unable to take responsibility for his own actions, and understand why I'm upset sometimes. I will clearly tell him why I'm upset, and he thinks that there is some hidden reason why.

Is It Normal?
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  • He sounds realy clingy, tell him to back off otherwise he's going to lose you.

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  • He loves you and is truly interested in your life. It's normal that he wants to do this. But if it bothers u then u need to talk to him or it could cause problems. Just be nice to him when u say it because he isn't doing this to piss u off.
    About the other thing... Idk what to say. Some ppl r like that

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  • lol waooooow that is clingy walkign in when you on the toilet thats just bloody emabressing!

    he must be love sick or somthing haha
    just let him know in nice way like! is this somthign hes allways done or liek thathas devloped over time?

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  • He sounds a bit too eager.He should definitely back off.

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  • I am 99% you are not together now! You are just not his type :)

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  • Irritating and annoying. U should talk to him and tell him, otherwise he won't stop and it'll gradually feel more irritating and annoying

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  • You are a huge part of his life. It's 'normal'

    You 'should' enjoy it. Depends how old you are.

    You got yourself into the situation of him loving you so you are going to have to approach it maturely.

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  • Girls above me are cunts who deserve a slap.

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