That was rape. Whether or not you should report it is up to you: given how women who've initially consented and then withdraw consent are treated you might just decide to have to have some specialised sexual assault/rape counselling instead.
The blue balls thing is a total myth: I didn't think anyone except teenagers believed in it any more. What's more, where do you get the idea that "so many men get wrongfully accused"? Most rapes aren't reported, most reports don't result in charges being laid and most cases which get to court result in acquittal of the rapist.
This should not have happened: you have the right to withdraw consent at any time, especially as you felt it was getting weird. Don't blame yourself for one moment and don't listen to anyone who does.
Well, not saying every woman who cries rape isn't raped, but I'd say more than a few do. They lie for fame, money or because they regretted the decision.
What i meant by blue balls (since i know it doesn't really exist) it was just a way of saying i gave him some/teased him and then stopped. Bringing someone to the brink of sexual excitement and then taking it away may not technically cause "blue balls" but idk I'd feel cheated or teased by it if it happened to me.
I was jw what the general populous thought about it.
Is it "technically" rape or consensual?
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That was rape. Whether or not you should report it is up to you: given how women who've initially consented and then withdraw consent are treated you might just decide to have to have some specialised sexual assault/rape counselling instead.
The blue balls thing is a total myth: I didn't think anyone except teenagers believed in it any more. What's more, where do you get the idea that "so many men get wrongfully accused"? Most rapes aren't reported, most reports don't result in charges being laid and most cases which get to court result in acquittal of the rapist.
This should not have happened: you have the right to withdraw consent at any time, especially as you felt it was getting weird. Don't blame yourself for one moment and don't listen to anyone who does.
Please get some support!
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YES, THIS, A THOUSAND TIMES YES!!!
Well, not saying every woman who cries rape isn't raped, but I'd say more than a few do. They lie for fame, money or because they regretted the decision.
What i meant by blue balls (since i know it doesn't really exist) it was just a way of saying i gave him some/teased him and then stopped. Bringing someone to the brink of sexual excitement and then taking it away may not technically cause "blue balls" but idk I'd feel cheated or teased by it if it happened to me.
I was jw what the general populous thought about it.
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I wouldnt go full blown PC and start posting #MeToo on your facebook but it was fucked up