Is it so crazy that my boyfriend is the only one...

Hello! Ok, I must know what everyone thinks about this one: is it normal to experience arousal only when seeing, thinking about, or being with my boyfriend? I don't have ANY sexual appetite at all except for my man. We dated for three years, broke up, and are back together, and yet even throughout the break up, no one has been able to turn me on except him. Is that jacked up stuff, or am I a normal gal?

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Based on 269 votes (210 yes)
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  • NMRC

    Your boyfriend is very lucky!

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  • Mrmatt

    Yes it's normal.
    It's called love.

    Why what do you want? To be aroused by other men? To what conclusion?
    Sounds to me like you are wondering why because you might have loose knickers and fancy playing the field.

    So you are in lust with one man.
    That's very sweet and if I were him I'd feel fucking fantastic.
    Just enjoy it and stop wondering why you aren't a cheating tart.

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    • LilLadyxxx

      Actually, I find it amazing to feel this way, I was just curious as to how many other people did. Hence the question, "is it normal?" What I don't see as particularly normal, however, is your immediate jump to such negative conclusions, with my being a slut with "loose knickers" the most ridiculous of them all.

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  • VioletTrees

    Are you demisexual, perhaps? Some people just aren't sexually attracted to people who they don't have an emotional connection to. My best friend is like that. It's a perfectly healthy way to be.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome

    If you don't have a problem with it, I don't see why anyone else should have. Get married.

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  • dude_Jones

    That's too bad. You need a fantasy life.

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  • deaddecayedcat

    Its normal. U love him and I think he might be the one. I still am like this over my ex who I haven't been with for a couple of years. But I see her all the time as we have kids and yeah there is something about her I'm always so horny when I've seen her. I sorta wonder if that's to do with pheromones sometimes.

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  • Fleetline

    I hoe he appreciates what a lucky guy he is to have you.

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  • MarkGibbons

    Wish if I was him, I'd wife you.

    And no, I had this about my first girlfriend. I wouldn't even think of anyone else.

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  • Mando

    I think if you only connect with your man through your cunt, you're in pretty shallow waters. Good luck anyway.

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    • LilLadyxxx

      Lol! Yeah, I actually agree, but that is not only how he and I are; it is, however, the one quick question I had to ask. I never meant to lay out the whole robust story, nor do I intend to.

      <3

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      • Mando

        Good to hear - rock on then!

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  • 80sDanceBabe

    I completely feel the same way about my boyfriend. No one has ever been able to turn me on but him. It is impossible for any other man to turn me on, but everything my man does turns me on. It is because you are most likely in love with him and care for him very deeply. They say crushes only last between 4-6 months, and then after that, it is love.

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  • Indifferentx

    I am exactly the same with my fiancé! Ignore these people. They
    sound stupid. You never said "should I start being a slut" or whatever!!! People need to stop complicating things. I'm sure there are many people just like us! Such as the person who stated above that her friend is only attracted to people she cared for. I think my fiancé is the definition of sexy! :) I used to be so attracted to the singer of my favorite band but now I
    can't even feel that. Haha. Regardless, I wish you and your man the best of luck and no more break ups, only happiness! :)

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    • LilLadyxxx

      Thank you very much, and best of luck with your fiancé!

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  • LilLadyxxx

    Hi everyone:

    Although I may not be entirely fond of all responses, I do thank you all for voting! I have never felt this way before I met my love, and before him, I really had no sexual appetite at all! Weird, but ah well.

    Thanks again everyone!

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  • forever_anon

    It's kind of unusual, but it sounds like it may be a good thing for your relationship, as long there's an equal connection. At least you won't have to worry about being tempted by others.

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  • ThatChick28

    Well how old r u? It's not normal at all but not nessesarily a bad thing...especially if he's the one...are u able to accept that ur not the only one who turns him on? Cause that could turn into a huge problem down the road when he wants to fuck something else...just don't go psycho on him...it's natural. Ur just special ^^ lol

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    • LilLadyxxx

      Lol we are both into each other like majorly crazy and we are both 31 years old lol! So not so young, but still young at heart. :) Uh, we split upat one point and throughout that time we both had relationships with other people, but couldnt help but making our ways back to each other. I wonder if anyone else has this issue lol!

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      • Mrmatt

        Hey here's a thought

        How would you feel if he was asking the same question?

        Would you think "oh no! Quick, fancy other women"

        Or would you feel lucky as fuck that your boyfriend, the man who holds your heart in his hands wants you and only you?

        Come on.....wake up.

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        • LilLadyxxx

          I am wide awake. I assume you took my use of the word "issue" incorrectly. Let us not forget that issues are not just negative things.

          Get bent.

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  • Energy

    Sounds like you're limiting yourself.

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    • LilLadyxxx

      If I were limiting myself, it would be entirely involuntary, so that is definitely not a thought.

      I plumb do not want anyone else.

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    • Mrmatt

      "Limiting yourself"???
      What are you? Some kind of super slut?

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      • Energy

        Hell yeah!

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        • LilLadyxxx

          HAHAHA!!

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