Would it be more rude to not send an invitation and justify it by saying "well they couldn't afford to come anyway"? Just because you get a wedding invitation, even if it is just across town, does not mean that you have to attend. But the courtesy is that you are saying to that person "If you can make it, I would like you to come and celebrate my wedding with me." That is what the RSVP card is for. You return the card and say I would love to attend but I can't because (insert reason or excuse here).
Is it rude to send invites to a wedding you KNOW people can't attend
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Would it be more rude to not send an invitation and justify it by saying "well they couldn't afford to come anyway"? Just because you get a wedding invitation, even if it is just across town, does not mean that you have to attend. But the courtesy is that you are saying to that person "If you can make it, I would like you to come and celebrate my wedding with me." That is what the RSVP card is for. You return the card and say I would love to attend but I can't because (insert reason or excuse here).