Is it rude that i want my best friend to lose weight?
My best friend is overweight, like i mean 60+ pounds more than she should be, and it’s only gotten worse in the last 2 years and it continues to go downhill. She always talks about how she wants to lose weight but never does anything about it. It actually makes me mad cause like she always takes her weight as a joke, like someone will mention that she’s grabbing 4 sweets at a time and she will actually take 5 more and say something like “haha why not”. Maybe shes in denial but she never listens to me when i suggest that maybe she shouldn’t have pizza AND pasta for lunch. I wish someone would tell her that she’s very obese just so it would get into her head and maybe she would try to do something about it, i would never have the guts to say it to her.