Unless he suddenly became abusive recently, it would've been better if you hadn't got pregnant to him in the first place.
It's too late for an abortion now but not too late to leave him. Get yourself and your existing child to a women's shelter and after this baby is born you can decide whether or not to arrange for it to be adopted. Just get out: you, your child and the child to come deserve better.
And please learn from this: I know birth control sometimes fails, in which case abortion is an option, but laziness and wishful thinking which results in another unwanted human being in the world is easy to avoid.
Thank you Ellenna for the words of encouragement.
Yes he did suddenly become aggro. Something that's never happened in the years I've known him.
To be honest I was almost willing to forgive him but I honestly think I am stronger than this and to punish and unborn life that will be 100% dependent on me will only be punishment on this poor baby.
In terms of contraception this baby was planned. Premature planning obviously. I regret a lot of things but I will definitely not be making the same mistake again.
Is it possible to not want your unborn baby?
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Unless he suddenly became abusive recently, it would've been better if you hadn't got pregnant to him in the first place.
It's too late for an abortion now but not too late to leave him. Get yourself and your existing child to a women's shelter and after this baby is born you can decide whether or not to arrange for it to be adopted. Just get out: you, your child and the child to come deserve better.
And please learn from this: I know birth control sometimes fails, in which case abortion is an option, but laziness and wishful thinking which results in another unwanted human being in the world is easy to avoid.
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This!
I also want to say I sincerely hope OP takes time out to learn how to spot the red flags of an abuser.
Thank you Ellenna for the words of encouragement.
Yes he did suddenly become aggro. Something that's never happened in the years I've known him.
To be honest I was almost willing to forgive him but I honestly think I am stronger than this and to punish and unborn life that will be 100% dependent on me will only be punishment on this poor baby.
In terms of contraception this baby was planned. Premature planning obviously. I regret a lot of things but I will definitely not be making the same mistake again.