Is it possible to let go?

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i fell in love with him 3 years ago..he is the best thing that has ever happened to me my entire life he loved me more than anything i did too,but we were both forced to end it cause of his community traditions which dont allow him to marry me,its been 2 weeks since i left him but i am realizing i did not leave him i just stopped calling him cause im thinking of him everyday, i cry missing him everyday i talk to him in my head every second i love him more each day
now i know nothing will work but forgetting him otherwise i ll be in pain for the rest of my life for losing such a bless that i once was given.
to think about forgetting him is the hardest thing ever it is getting me confused cause i really dont wanna forget him i really dont wanna stop loving him but i have to
i love him more than the word"love" means to anyone even me
i only know that i love him and need him more than anything in this whole world anything ever...

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  • tammy77
    13 years ago

    i did talk to him . and we are back but whats behind it?
    none

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  • JandC
    13 years ago

    ye 2 weeks isnt that long i still love my ex bf and its been a year and i cant let go still , just give it time xx
    talk to him tho hes probly thinking that he misses u 2 and now he thinks u dnt want him around talk to him tell him how u feel and if he loves u he will understand xx

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  • tammy77
    13 years ago

    if he married me all his family will be hurt by the people and the village they are living in every member will be looked down on
    we both sacrificed for his family

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  • DES
    13 years ago

    Pain let's you know your alive. Sometimes all we have is the what ifs......

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  • heycheri
    13 years ago

    Everything is going to be okay. You are normal. Embrace the sadness and get it all out. You'll be alright.

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  • lmn
    13 years ago

    2 weeks isn't a long time. It will take more time than that for you to get over a break up. Relax a little bit and eventually you will feel like yourself again.

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    • tammy77
      13 years ago

      i am alright ya sometimes but no one day can pass without remembering him , just last night i was thinking about all and i knew it is impossible to forget him as long as his sisters are my friends and his friends are my friends and my little sister who is 4 years old keeps asking me how is he doing?
      my family loves him and his family loves me too
      it is impossible

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  • BlackShadow123
    13 years ago

    Im sorry. but if he loves you, he will leave the traditions to be with you.
    Love is powerful. If he said he'd do anything for you, this is his time to do what he said he would.

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  • sportsmom
    13 years ago

    Why can't he marry you?

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