Is it ok to react to her child bullying behavior?
I live at home with my roommate.
She’s horrible, she calls me names, gives me big long speeches on how I’m failing in life, turned into a bully and doing really crap.
She’s disappointed with me basically talking to me like she’s the boss of me.
I’m moving out in a few months thank god, but I need to just cope until then.
Lately she’s just walking past me and laughing I generally just think she’s jealous of me as she has said it before.
But I just pretend I don’t care and keep being happy which annoys her so much.
I’m not doing it intentionally to annoy her, I’m genuinely happy and she just hates the fact!! Which isn’t my problem, it’s her own insecurities.
I just need help on what to do every time she walks passed me and makes a smart comment sometimes.
Before I’ve just laughed back and continued being happy.
But doesn’t seem to be working as she’s still doing it.
Her weakness is me being happy as I can see it when I smile or laugh she slams doors and sighs.
Please help Thankyou.
I forgot to mention we have had a fall out and arguments in the past, but lately it’s kust gotten to a point where I can’t ignore it and I have to react when she laughs as it’s my only shield really.