Is it ok to hook up with my daughters ex boyfriend?
My daughter dated this guy for about 6 months they were getting pretty serious up until my daughter went back for her junior year of college they split up she was pretty upset but as most do she got over it. As far as I know they do still talk from time to time but have not hung out since when she is home. Her ex bf is about 25 he’s an attractive man and I’m in my late 40s. I always felt some chemistry between us whenever my daughter would be in the shower or in the bathroom for a period of time I would catch him checking me out especially when she wasn’t around. He would compliment certain things about me and joke and say he wishes my daughter had that or did this. One of the last times he was over was actually by himself he was going to be visiting my daughter at school and came by to pick up some of her things. It was a Friday night so I had already had a couple of glasses of wine myself he said he was coming from a bar with some work friends. We both sat down had a glass of wine and got carried away talking without realizing it was almost 10 o’clock before he left I sat him down next to me to show him a gift idea for my daughter on my phone which was my biggest mistake single mom wine and staring an attractive 25 year old man in the eyes in your empty house is not something you should be doing if that man is your daughters boyfriend.
I felt an immediate attraction we both stared each other in the eyes until I saw him lick his lips and start leaning in towards me the only thing I could think to do was drop my almost empty glass of wine to cause a distraction. I told him I had to take care of it and we said goodbye I regretted not kissing him for so long but was glad I didn’t just completely ruin my relationship with my daughter. Since they broke up a couple months ago he still messages me from time to time sending wink emojis the other night around 2 am I got a Facebook notification saying he had liked a photo of mine when I opened it up it was an old picture of me doing yoga in leggings couldn’t see my face mostly just my butt and then the like was gone. My daughter has been staying at a friends house and at night inviting him over has been all I can think about. Is this normal is this anything any other mother has experienced .. I hope:/ lol