It could be that she doesn't want him to know about you.
I don't think that's a good way to handle things though, in the end if the boyfriend finds out about you he'll be very suspicious and think something is going on between you two if she's kept you secret. But that's her problem. You can't do much about how she handles her relationship.
I'm pretty sure he knows she has "guy friends", but if I was in his position I would be at least curious to meet them once or ask about it.
He might not just give a hoot, who knows. They've been dating a little over a year now and live together soo.
Either way, I feel like she's keeping me on the backburner "just in case". I've had one other woman do this to me before in my early twenties and it felt similar to the situation I'm in now.
Oh well if she has other guy friends too and doesn't keep them secret then it's even weirder. If she just doesn't talk about them ever, well.. Early on in a relationship I could see that being somewhat normal but if they're living together they must have a pretty serious relationship and should know about each others friends by now. You could be right about her keeping you on the backburner.
Is it odd that a friend who is a girl never wants me to meet her boyfriend?
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It could be that she doesn't want him to know about you.
I don't think that's a good way to handle things though, in the end if the boyfriend finds out about you he'll be very suspicious and think something is going on between you two if she's kept you secret. But that's her problem. You can't do much about how she handles her relationship.
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I'm pretty sure he knows she has "guy friends", but if I was in his position I would be at least curious to meet them once or ask about it.
He might not just give a hoot, who knows. They've been dating a little over a year now and live together soo.
Either way, I feel like she's keeping me on the backburner "just in case". I've had one other woman do this to me before in my early twenties and it felt similar to the situation I'm in now.
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Oh well if she has other guy friends too and doesn't keep them secret then it's even weirder. If she just doesn't talk about them ever, well.. Early on in a relationship I could see that being somewhat normal but if they're living together they must have a pretty serious relationship and should know about each others friends by now. You could be right about her keeping you on the backburner.