Is it notmal to be sooo obbsessed over my boyfriend?

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ok im soooo obbsessed with my boyfriend i want it too stop! how do i make it stop??
i am too in love or something because anytime his friends go to his house i get so mad cause he calls me late or he doesnt call me at the right time he says. an when he goes to see his mom or dad i hate it i feel like he loves then sooooo freaking much an when hes with them i feel like he forgetts all about me. :( just please tell me some things i can do to get him off my mind! i just want to almost forgette him. i still wanna be his girlfriend i just wanna NOT BE OBBSESSED! i hate it!! i get so mad even when he turns his head an it looks like hes looking at another girl.. i dont have any friends or anything cause i wanna know everything my bf is doing.. i never have friends over my house i never hang out with girls or anything im just sooooo obbsedd!! plesae someone help me! im always sooo depressed an sad when hes not with me omg i think about him 24 7!please someone help me i will really apresiate it! :DD i just want someone to talk to an leave your email or something so i can tell you how things are going an we can be like email buddys hehe(: please help!! i cryy all the time cause im so scard im going to lose him an the other night he told me how he is getting so mad cause im so obbsed with him an he said if it doesnt stop then we need to break up :( please someone help me before its soo late.

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  • elle-is-odd
    13 years ago | pl

    uuhm. yes, this is normal, this happens to the best of us BUT...is it HEALTHY?

    Probably not.

    I'd say try and give eachother space...if you love your boyfriend that much...then you need to learn to trust him, and have faith in him. It's okay to love someone, and it's normal to want to always be with someone but...when it comes to that point, then it's not healthy.

    you lose your friends, as you mentioned, you probably get into a lot of arguements too...
    This happens a lot to pre teens and young teens...12-14 I'd say.

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  • yellowchalk
    13 years ago | pl

    Wow, I came to this website, ready to type out "OMG I'M TOO OBSESSED WITH MY BOYFRIEND IS THIS NORMAL" and then I find someone else has the same problem as me!
    I know exactly how you feel, except I always feel jealous of my boyfriend's older sisters.
    I would totally be your e-mail buddy if you want. I was about to leave you a really long comment but maybe it'd be better if we were e-buddies...

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    • Anyabeauty:)
      10 years ago | pl

      Me too! It's been a year and a month long relationship with my bf... I find myself annoying when I do this.. But I no it's not healthy.. And I try my hardest to fix this issue:(! At least we know we are not the only ones!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    If I was your bf I'd run away you crazy bitch. Insecure much?

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  • KacyWatson
    3 years ago | pl

    Normal. You need to have more sex with him as far as I can tell.

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  • Rusty-Rider
    7 years ago | pl

    It sounds to me like you are psychologically dependent on this man as apposed to being in love with him. Why not get yourself out there and meet some other guys and do some socializing. You don't have to bed them but at least spend some time with other people. You may find that the unnatural infatuation with your boyfriend might mellow somewhat and you may be able think more clearly about your situation.
    It doesn't sound like he's into the same trip as you anyway and you will lose him if you carry on with your current behavior.

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  • Bloke333
    10 years ago | pl

    I wish I had a girlfriend like that. (Pointing finger)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    You don't love your boyfriend... You are infatuated with him.
    The things you are doing are red flags of abusive relationships. I mean they are early warning signs. Stop being a creepy whore. Make friends. Find something you enjoy, and it will make your life so much better..

    And please pay attention in your English class. You could use the help.

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  • Jen118584
    13 years ago | pl

    You really just need to be strong enough to control these emotions. You know these feelings you have are irrational and you know your expectations are unrealistic. You can't be with him constantly and you can't be the only person in his life. The only thing you can do is suck it up and accept that you have to share him, or lose him. Your choice!

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