Is it normally to feel like you don’t know what to do. .

With your hands when he goes down on you?? I mean obviously when he hits the spot u let him know, rubbing your hands on his head? On there back?? But what do you ladies do with your hands when your man is going down on you?

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  • litelander8

    It doesn’t matter what you do with your hands. Let the man eat. It’s a fucking recession.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Run your fingers through his hair.

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  • SmokeEverything

    How many hands do you have? It's like one for a lighter one for a cigarette/pipe for something...

    Coming from a dude thats usually normal for the situation from my experience

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  • --

    Probably texting on their phone

    "hi jill"

    __________"hi hun"

    "Shoul I tell bub he got
    a bold spot?"

    ___________"idk maybe"

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  • Boojum

    If you're worrying about what you should do with your hands while you're receiving oral sex, then he's probably not very good at it, you're not allowing yourself to really get into it, or both of those things.

    Staying "in your head" during sex is a problem for a lot of people, particularly when they're inexperienced and insecure about whether they're doing it "right". It can also be a problem if you know - or believe - that your partner is observing your performance and comparing it to their previous partners or what they've seen in porn.

    There is no one, right way to have sex; it's not like ballet or yoga where there are a standard series of poses, each with correct positions for the limbs. Good sex happens when your self-consciousness vanishes because your partner allows you feel secure and free to whatever you want without fear of judgement, criticism or mockery, the rest of the world is utterly unimportant, you are totally in the moment and completely focused on the sensations you're experiencing.

    Rather than asking people for their advice on the appropriate position for the various bits of your body during particular sex acts, I think you'd be wise to ponder why it is that you're fretting about this. Try to figure out what it is about yourself, the guy you're with or the dynamics of your relationship that's blocking you from letting go and feeling comfortable with doing whatever feels right at every moment as you're having sex.

    If that seems like too much work and you just want a practical answer to your query, then I'd draw your attention to your chest, where there are a pair of obvious resting places for your hands. He'd probably enjoy seeing you doing things there (not least because he will have seen it very often in porn), and you might even enjoy it too.

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    • fortuno

      so can you show it? ;)

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    carve some scrimshaw like a normal person

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    • Bazinga

      Most peoples just read the newspaper.

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      • fortuno

        where did you learn to read?

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        • Bazinga

          From an English teacher that was sucking my cock. She was expressing her appreciation for my comprehension which far surpassed grade level. My comments on the journalistic style to which the newspaper was written triggered instantaneous sexual excitement that she found to be irresistible.

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