Is it normally for my girl sistet to dress inappropriate around me

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My girl her sister and I are sharing and apartment for time being. One day my girl told me too take ac out her sister window as she left for work. So i went in room her sister was there with a short night gown on and bent over in front of me to move her shoes out the way so i could grab the ac Out the window. As she bent over too pick her shoes i saw her ass and panties. Another time was when i was in shower and she knocked on door then just came and said she had to use bathroom so i got out of shower to let her use it, This was just two mins after i got in the shower. Next time she had on a see through lingerie were i could see her butt and panties as she walk around the house with them like it was nothing. Then she bust in on my girl and i having sex 3 times knocking and then just letting herself in. Another she came in bathroom while i was taking a dunk right after i sat down. Is she trying to hint at fucking me or are they trying to see if i will react or do they both want me or am i thinking too deep into it?

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  • JD777
    8 years ago | pl

    Hard to say, but I'd say the sister is just a tease and jealous and wants you to notice her. Any move you make on her would be cheating and likely a trap or something you'd regret.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      Thanks for the response. Maybe ahe is jealous sha has said a few things that made me question if she was.

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  • Murun
    8 years ago | pl

    She's probably just casually exhibitionist.. Just enjoy the view and carry on as normal.

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  • VinnyB
    8 years ago | pl

    I don't really get the big deal about seeing a girls panties. Haven't you ever been to the beach? A bra and panties and a bikini are the same thing. Why a woman will walk around in a bikini but cover up if someone sees them in a bra and panties is beyond me. Maybe she feels the same way and doesn't think it is any big deal. I would personally hate to live in a situation where I could not be comfortable in my underwear.

    What I find distressing is her lack of respect for your personal space. Walking in to rooms with out permission when you are in the bathroom or having sex is disrespectful. I think you should sit down all three of you and just discuss it like adults. You can discuss the clothing thing as well if you want. Like I said, I think it's no big deal, but you're not me, so if it offends your sense of modesty, say something.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      I see what your saying about the beach but that's where its appropriate to do so. But we are at home sharing an apartment so we all have to have consideration for one another im not walking around in just brief and no shirt with my penis imprint exposed or a hard on to stay in room.

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago | pl

        PS: And what's an "ac" out the window????

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago | pl

        Well, she's not walking around obviously sexually aroused is she so there's no comparison with you walking around with a hardon.

        It's her home, if she can't dress how she wants there, where can she?

        Walking into other people's bedrooms or the bathroom without knocking or permission is another matters, that's just plain disrspectful, but these are two entirely different things.

        By the way, what's a "penis imprint"?

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      • VinnyB
        8 years ago | pl

        Yea to me that is just silly. If I have seen you dressed that why at the beach, why should I be shocked to see you dressed that way at home? But it might not b silly to you. You might not walk around that way, but other people would. Different people have different standards of modesty.

        I suspect that her sense of modesty is more similar to mine, and so I see nothing wrong with it. Clearly you are a bit more conservative than we are. That is cool, but you can't assume that the entire world shares your view. You assume that she is trying to show off, but as I said, she might just think it's no big deal. Either way, like I said before, if it bothers you, than you need to talk to her about it. Otherwise, how is she expected to know?

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  • Splithead
    8 years ago | pl

    Well yea actually... maybe do that with her. I was thinking about how I'd want to handle it if my brother was hitting on my girlfriend. Definately would want to handle that myself.

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    • Ellenna
      8 years ago | pl

      But nobody's hitting on anybody are they? DId I miss something?

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      • VinnyB
        8 years ago | pl

        Exactly. This is just the OP's perception. As I said before in the thread, she might just think walking around in undies is no big deal, lot's of people think that way. She might also be doing it to get his attention, but he really has no idea. Just because the OP assumes everything is about him, doesn't mean it really is.

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        • Ellenna
          8 years ago | pl

          Yeah, exactly. The fact that he compared her behavior with (theoretically) him walking around with a hard on was a dead giveaway to me that he's the one sexualising the situation, she's just behaving normally. Even if she is being a bit of an exhibitionist, how come he can't just ignore it or laugh it off? I reckon because he's turned on by it and reckons so SHE has to change her behavior around him.

          As a long term Anarchist Feminist (used to be called Women's Liberationists), I've always hated the assumption that men can't help themselves if a woman dresses or behaves in a certain way for two reasons: it's usually coupled with demands that women behave or dress differently so as to not "provoke" men or which excuses for predatory behavior AND it's totally insulting to men that they have no control over their sexual behavior.

          In spite of all evidence to the contrary, I continue to have hope in the human race as a whole

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          • VinnyB
            8 years ago | pl

            "Even if she is being a bit of an exhibitionist, how come he can't just ignore it or laugh it off? I reckon because he's turned on by it and reckons so SHE has to change her behavior around him."

            This is the only thing that I disagree with. In a household, if someone's actions are making someone else uncomfortable, it should be addressed. This is true regardless if the person is male or female, and the reason it makes the person uncomfortable should not be relevant.

            If the situation was reversed, he was walking around in his undies, and that made her uncomfortable, or if he was doing any one of a million different things that might make her uncomfortable, she shouldn't have to just deal with it and be uncomfortable in her home. She should be able to talk to him about it like adults and decide what they can do to correct the situation.

            He has the same right. If she is doing something that makes him uncomfortable, he has the right to discuss it with her like adults. Her actions might not bother you or I, but he is not us, and if it makes him uncomfortable, than it makes him uncomfortable. I am also not saying she is under any obligation to change her behavior, she can tell him to piss off if she wants to, but he has the right to raise the issue.

            But unless he raises the issue, he has no reason to just assume that she is doing purposefully just for him.

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            • Ellenna
              8 years ago | pl

              You're quite right, he needs to raise it with the whole household as a household issue BUT he also needs to look at the reason why he's uncomfortable. If she's comfortable wearing what she likes in her own home and he can't cope with it, maybe it's not going to work as a household unless one of them changes and that can't happen unless it's talked about.

              I don't agree that the reason it makes him uncomfortable is irrelevant, because otherwise the focus is all on her behaviour and none on his responses to it.

              Apart from that I totally agree with you: they're all adults and surely can discuss this as a household issue EXCEPT I'm a bit concerned she may be outnumbered, as his gf will probably back him against her sister. I guess it's obvious my sympathies are with her, so maybe I am a bit biassed!

              I envy young people, especially young women, who are comfortable in their own bodies because it took me decades to get over my fundamentalist body-hating christian upbringing and now I'm old and saggy and fat and have those issues to deal with around other people.

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  • Splithead
    8 years ago | pl

    Do this. Go to your girlfriend and say "Hey, I don't know what's up exactly but I'm getting some vibes fro your sister. I don't know if she's oblivious, trying to tempt/test me or if she wants a threesome but you two need to talk about all the sexual liberties shes taking around me." tell her the stuff she does. Say "i'mnot trying to drive a wedge between you two, so you can just talk it out between you, and let me know how that goes later. Love ya babe"

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    • VinnyB
      8 years ago | pl

      Yea, that would be the way to handle it if you have no balls. Or, rather than force your girlfriend to have to have a very awkward conversation with her sister by herself, in stead of dropping that on her and leaving, you could be involved to support her and your position.

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  • Angelmikeal
    8 years ago | pl

    Temptation Temptation Temptation I Think U Should Talk To Your Girl About This Before It Gets Out Of Hand Just Saying

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  • Mr-Myrtos
    8 years ago | pl

    I live in a naturist resort all year round therefore I find nothing wrong about brother and sister walking around naked in front of each other if that happens.
    Open your mind.

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