There are so many reasons she might now want you to touch her - but.... if she doesnt want you to leave her but she doesent want you to touch her maybe she has become incredibly insecure about herself. OR maybe she doesnt respect you for some reason, or find you attractive - who the hell really knows, and she might even lie if you ask her so....
you need to ask yourself if your happy with this. You arent responsible for her feelings (unless you have done or said something horrible to her of course) but you have no control over them. Having said that if you want change you have to just make it happen - it seems simple, but she isnt happy - she has made that abundantly clear with her lack of affection AND she needs to take some sort of responsibility to communicate her problems with you if she wants change. Misery loves company.
Personally I would not want to be in a relationship that lacks communication and affection combined with a placed guilt for wanting things to be better. I have stopped intamacy with a partner because I didnt respect that person - but I have enough SELF RESPECT to leave that situation that makes me miserable. Sounds like she wants to be in a miserable relationship. Of course there is probably a lot more to this storey, but this is my response given the information provided.
You only live once....... dont be trapped with misery - its not fair to you or her. Sounds like she would be happier without you too - I mean lets face it ...... everyone likes sex.
Is it normal your wife to hate you
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There are so many reasons she might now want you to touch her - but.... if she doesnt want you to leave her but she doesent want you to touch her maybe she has become incredibly insecure about herself. OR maybe she doesnt respect you for some reason, or find you attractive - who the hell really knows, and she might even lie if you ask her so....
you need to ask yourself if your happy with this. You arent responsible for her feelings (unless you have done or said something horrible to her of course) but you have no control over them. Having said that if you want change you have to just make it happen - it seems simple, but she isnt happy - she has made that abundantly clear with her lack of affection AND she needs to take some sort of responsibility to communicate her problems with you if she wants change. Misery loves company.
Personally I would not want to be in a relationship that lacks communication and affection combined with a placed guilt for wanting things to be better. I have stopped intamacy with a partner because I didnt respect that person - but I have enough SELF RESPECT to leave that situation that makes me miserable. Sounds like she wants to be in a miserable relationship. Of course there is probably a lot more to this storey, but this is my response given the information provided.
You only live once....... dont be trapped with misery - its not fair to you or her. Sounds like she would be happier without you too - I mean lets face it ...... everyone likes sex.