Is it normal? worrying about asking someone you like out.

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Okay so I recently met this guy who is a few years younger than I (he is almost 19 and I am 21). I asked him out on a date a week or so ago and to my surprise he accepted! We seemed to really hit it off, he was very polite, he even gave me a hug when we left the restaurant. However, a few nights later I talked to him and it was basically just a "hey, how you doing"-type thing...nothing real special. I've started to really like him though and I want to ask him if he wants to go to Homecoming, among a few other places, but I'm afraid he'll think I'm trying to stalk him. What should I do? Is it normal to fret over somebody you like, even if you've only known each other for a short time?

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  • tacolord
    10 years ago | pl

    Just go for it! Set your worries aside and embrace the adrenalin of asking him out! Just say it and be prepared for everything. Besides, he wouldn't have dated you unless he was not interested ;)

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  • St.Clair59
    13 years ago | pl

    Do you think it's just a matter of getting to know him better, perhaps?

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  • maacri
    13 years ago | pl

    Do it dear, you are one thought away from your life..

    It will work.. all the best...

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago | pl

    totally normal. agree w/ the last comment..if you two seem to get along good, you should go for it. good luck :)

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  • ComeFlyWithMe
    13 years ago | pl

    It's normal to worry, but go for it! Maybe he's too shy to ask you.

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