I think the girl was under the inpression the two of them were friends and got shocked by the sudden kiss. Both were in the wrong for not saying what they wanted prior to this. She still shouldn't have hit him or spat on him like an animal.
OP sounds to me like he had Nice Guy Syndrom (which girls can also do to guys just as easily), thinking that spending money on someone and being friendly will result in a relationship. He mentioned all the "wasted effort" gone into this only to be shot down and rejected. He should grow up a little and try finding someone he can be more direct with and see where it goes.
IIN women are so cold and heartless?
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I think the girl was under the inpression the two of them were friends and got shocked by the sudden kiss. Both were in the wrong for not saying what they wanted prior to this. She still shouldn't have hit him or spat on him like an animal.
OP sounds to me like he had Nice Guy Syndrom (which girls can also do to guys just as easily), thinking that spending money on someone and being friendly will result in a relationship. He mentioned all the "wasted effort" gone into this only to be shot down and rejected. He should grow up a little and try finding someone he can be more direct with and see where it goes.