I feel where you're coming from honestly. She never set a definite line there and basically wanted a friendship with boyfriend benefits. She knew you liked her or you wouldn't go out of your way for her. But next time a situation like that comes up, just ask how the woman feels about you before doing anything physical.
As for her, forget about her. It was never going to go anywhere and once you stopped using your resources on her, she was gonna find another man to friendzone and drop you anyway. Grown women don't just use men or other women.
I think the girl was under the inpression the two of them were friends and got shocked by the sudden kiss. Both were in the wrong for not saying what they wanted prior to this. She still shouldn't have hit him or spat on him like an animal.
OP sounds to me like he had Nice Guy Syndrom (which girls can also do to guys just as easily), thinking that spending money on someone and being friendly will result in a relationship. He mentioned all the "wasted effort" gone into this only to be shot down and rejected. He should grow up a little and try finding someone he can be more direct with and see where it goes.
IIN women are so cold and heartless?
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I feel where you're coming from honestly. She never set a definite line there and basically wanted a friendship with boyfriend benefits. She knew you liked her or you wouldn't go out of your way for her. But next time a situation like that comes up, just ask how the woman feels about you before doing anything physical.
As for her, forget about her. It was never going to go anywhere and once you stopped using your resources on her, she was gonna find another man to friendzone and drop you anyway. Grown women don't just use men or other women.
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I think the girl was under the inpression the two of them were friends and got shocked by the sudden kiss. Both were in the wrong for not saying what they wanted prior to this. She still shouldn't have hit him or spat on him like an animal.
OP sounds to me like he had Nice Guy Syndrom (which girls can also do to guys just as easily), thinking that spending money on someone and being friendly will result in a relationship. He mentioned all the "wasted effort" gone into this only to be shot down and rejected. He should grow up a little and try finding someone he can be more direct with and see where it goes.