Thanks for all the comments, I do get why people are saying I should do it, she has always done stuff for me. But the stuff she has done is things like wear a remote control vibrator for a few days, had great fun with that and used it in some interesting places, restaurant, supermarket queue, on a bus etc. She was uncomfortable with the idea but actually loved it and has now become an occasional bit of fun we have. Another was removing her underwear at the table in a restaurant, a night out in a mini skirt and no knickers, walk down the street naked (we did that at 4 in the morning). 2 or 3 others but all one off events with a risk of getting caught, but with care can be done undetected by anyone but us.
What she wants me to do will last a full 2 weeks, can't possibly happen without people noticing and has some embarrassing preparation by going into shops and trying on a selection of outfits.
Her argument has always been that she has always wanted this, so if it's not on the list then it's not a proper bucket list. I always said I didn't want it on there but reluctantly agreed in the end thinking she would never really expect it to happen.
I know she is really serious about this and has already started preparing even though it's still 2 months to the holiday. She has put me on a strict diet and gym routine and is expecting me to loose at least a stone by the holiday as she doesn't want an overweight wife. She has also stopped shaving her legs and armpits as she wants to look more manly, and is planning to have her hair cut short like a man in about a month's time. She has just started giving me lessons on applying makeup as she expects me to do my own makeup and do it well for the whole holiday. I have also been told I either grow my nails long or she will book me in at the local nail bar before we go away to have false ones. It's like she has become obsessed with the whole thing, I have never known her to be obsessive like this and am a bit worried about how far she seems to be going with it all.
IIN wife wants me to be the woman for our holiday
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Thanks for all the comments, I do get why people are saying I should do it, she has always done stuff for me. But the stuff she has done is things like wear a remote control vibrator for a few days, had great fun with that and used it in some interesting places, restaurant, supermarket queue, on a bus etc. She was uncomfortable with the idea but actually loved it and has now become an occasional bit of fun we have. Another was removing her underwear at the table in a restaurant, a night out in a mini skirt and no knickers, walk down the street naked (we did that at 4 in the morning). 2 or 3 others but all one off events with a risk of getting caught, but with care can be done undetected by anyone but us.
What she wants me to do will last a full 2 weeks, can't possibly happen without people noticing and has some embarrassing preparation by going into shops and trying on a selection of outfits.
Her argument has always been that she has always wanted this, so if it's not on the list then it's not a proper bucket list. I always said I didn't want it on there but reluctantly agreed in the end thinking she would never really expect it to happen.
I know she is really serious about this and has already started preparing even though it's still 2 months to the holiday. She has put me on a strict diet and gym routine and is expecting me to loose at least a stone by the holiday as she doesn't want an overweight wife. She has also stopped shaving her legs and armpits as she wants to look more manly, and is planning to have her hair cut short like a man in about a month's time. She has just started giving me lessons on applying makeup as she expects me to do my own makeup and do it well for the whole holiday. I have also been told I either grow my nails long or she will book me in at the local nail bar before we go away to have false ones. It's like she has become obsessed with the whole thing, I have never known her to be obsessive like this and am a bit worried about how far she seems to be going with it all.