Is it normal why won't my bf screw me? i thought all men loved sex!

ok so i think i am pretty attractive female. infact i'd say i am much better looking than my boyfriend (just sayin!) we have been dating for 4 years but he rarely ever wants to have sex (he has never had a true mans appetite for sex) instead he plays tons of video games (i can't effin stand that part) sometimes i feel like i am the man in the relationship! i crave sex and am left to resort to masturbation most of the time. wtf! i miss the real thing! what would u do? clever/creative ways to seduce him? maybe he is bored with me? the past couple times hes taken me dancing he has asked if we could go to the strip club too (i am bi so i enjoy the strip club too) but i don't exactly want him getting horny lookin at strippers and then maybe wanting to have sex with me finally! help!!! oh and incase u were wondering the frequency we do it like 2x a month!!! ridiculous!

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  • Get into video games

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  • Turn of the video games off on him... :)

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  • He's a child playing Childs game's. Dump the retard. You should be getting it more often than not playing sex games with your man not watching him play stupid video game. Dump him and cum out to play with real guys who will adore your body mind & soul

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  • ha! 2-3 times a week would be great! seems like u are pretty hungry to me ;) haha I have to slap him in the face with my boobs to even get his attention for a second when hes playin damn video games! he gets so in the zone nothing else exists and he wouldn't have it any other way. i really think that video games are his favorite thing in this world :(

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  • wow you know what as much as li like to learn about health and diet it never crossed my mind that his diet was affecting him that way. he really does have a poor diet but the lucky sod has a fast metabolism to compensate. even though i bother him about it all the time he always eats crap and hardly ever eats veggies... he also takes alot of aleve for his back (he's a roofer). its all making sense now! like i said he's never been a sex fiend and has always had a terrible diet. now it seems even more hopeless since i have been trying to get him to change his diet forever! hmmm i think he needs an ultimatum thanks so much for your input! :)

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  • not all men have a "mans appetite for sex" as you put it. When I am in a physical relationship, I really only want it like 2-3 times a week, but when I do want it, it's like 6 hours of nonstop action. But, it does sound like you have a bad situation goin on. Try givin him a strip tease when he is playin video games, that would def work on me. Or, when he's standing up, come up behind him and stick your arms around him and down the front of his pants, physical contact helps get a man aroused.

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  • sounds like diet, liver disorder, liver has mega amounts to do with sex drive (body chemicals) bad diet, bad liver, bad sex drive....

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  • hm, let me think. well, don't know much details, but u know what? go do what u wanna do. if this dude doesn't satisfy u, than u should be considering dropping that bum. i mean if u have no feelings or anything than y not? I mean for Christ's Sake twice a month should tell u something. good luck

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    • i do love him and don't want to break it off but i know i can't go on like this... somethings gotta give!

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  • well i wouldnt waste my time with a guy who just wants to play video games. just think 10 years down the track, you are going to be in the same situation.

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