Is it normal when you are ready to move people get weird

I have moved several times in my life, most of them were work related ( new job), almost always out-of-state. In many instances the people I knew or had been working with previously become distant, in some cases angry when I told them. Or they stop interacting with me all together. PeopleI had gotten along with for years, once they found out I was leaving, " cut me out" and became distant and a little weird!

Is It Normal?
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  • They just don't want to help u out with the moving...

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  • Ya. They prObably hate to see you leave conatantly. Maybe juat staying at one place could help improve your social life.

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  • this has happened to me. i don't know why they do this.

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  • They're trying to make it easier for themselves when you leave. It's a rejection coping strategy.

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  • It's normal but it still is a bit f-ed up. They're probably trying to make your departure easier on themselves.

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