It can be okay and it can not be.
First of all, if you really loved her then it can be okay. Some guys go out with young girls since they're "easy to get" so they make them believe that they like them when they really don't. All those guys want is sex.
At the same time, as I said, if you only went out with her because of a special reason, then no it's not. You'd just use her and that's not cool. You were 20 and she was 15. That means you too didn't have the same mentality - AT ALL. If you're 20, you're finished with school since 2 years and you're now in college. Although, if she's 15 she's still in highschool. Plus, it's considered as rape.
But maybe you guys really cliqued together and you had a lot in commun ;) Personnally I wouldn't go out with someone 5 years older than me. But then again it's YOUR life. Hope i helped :P
In my post I stated that she asked me out. I wasn't even trying to go for underage girls but she liked me and I had never had a girlfriend and she seems cool so I accepted her offer.
Also the maturity of someone 15, 20 or whatever age depends on the person. I already stated that we went to the same high school and I didn't get out until I was 22. I will admit I am highly immature for my age. I'm 29 now and while I'm certainly not going to go for underage girls at this age I am still like a 12 year old boy on the inside and have a difficult time finding people my age who are similar.
Is it normal when I was 20 my girlfriend was 15?
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It can be okay and it can not be.
First of all, if you really loved her then it can be okay. Some guys go out with young girls since they're "easy to get" so they make them believe that they like them when they really don't. All those guys want is sex.
At the same time, as I said, if you only went out with her because of a special reason, then no it's not. You'd just use her and that's not cool. You were 20 and she was 15. That means you too didn't have the same mentality - AT ALL. If you're 20, you're finished with school since 2 years and you're now in college. Although, if she's 15 she's still in highschool. Plus, it's considered as rape.
But maybe you guys really cliqued together and you had a lot in commun ;) Personnally I wouldn't go out with someone 5 years older than me. But then again it's YOUR life. Hope i helped :P
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In my post I stated that she asked me out. I wasn't even trying to go for underage girls but she liked me and I had never had a girlfriend and she seems cool so I accepted her offer.
Also the maturity of someone 15, 20 or whatever age depends on the person. I already stated that we went to the same high school and I didn't get out until I was 22. I will admit I am highly immature for my age. I'm 29 now and while I'm certainly not going to go for underage girls at this age I am still like a 12 year old boy on the inside and have a difficult time finding people my age who are similar.