Personally, I know exactly what you mean. Like when a girl is absolutely gorgeous, how would a father refrain from never thinking about her? I'm sure it crosses a lot of fathers' minds, even if minimally. We are naturally attracted physically to the looks we desire and are socialized to deem as "hot". It's only abnormal if it gets to the point where it's all you ever think about as a father and it hinders the relationship or, at worst, you act on it. However, I think once you have acknowledged your daughter is stunning, I would imagine that you think about it less as time goes on.
Whether or not it's considered normal to feel this way, I don't know, but thoughts aren't always easy to control, and as long as you are conscientious about these thoughts and aren't letting them take over, it isn't as horrible as it seems. Some people hide a lot worse things than this, not only in thoughts, but actually letting themselves act on urges.
Think of it as, once you've had the thought, you can acknowledge it and accept it and move forward. Otherwise, saying is this normal, and hanging on it, only sucks you right back in over and over. Personally, again, I've thought about it. As well, I've thought about moms changing the diapers of and general caring of well-endowed men. Such as if a child had a larger than normal penis at a young age, how could the mom not think about it? Ultimately, we are wired, in spite of other forms of attraction, towards physical attraction. Big boobs are big boobs at any age. Big penises are big penises at any age. Maturity and self control is learning to be on top of these things and figuring out how to move past it.
IIN when I see a hot girl I think about her dad
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Personally, I know exactly what you mean. Like when a girl is absolutely gorgeous, how would a father refrain from never thinking about her? I'm sure it crosses a lot of fathers' minds, even if minimally. We are naturally attracted physically to the looks we desire and are socialized to deem as "hot". It's only abnormal if it gets to the point where it's all you ever think about as a father and it hinders the relationship or, at worst, you act on it. However, I think once you have acknowledged your daughter is stunning, I would imagine that you think about it less as time goes on.
Whether or not it's considered normal to feel this way, I don't know, but thoughts aren't always easy to control, and as long as you are conscientious about these thoughts and aren't letting them take over, it isn't as horrible as it seems. Some people hide a lot worse things than this, not only in thoughts, but actually letting themselves act on urges.
Think of it as, once you've had the thought, you can acknowledge it and accept it and move forward. Otherwise, saying is this normal, and hanging on it, only sucks you right back in over and over. Personally, again, I've thought about it. As well, I've thought about moms changing the diapers of and general caring of well-endowed men. Such as if a child had a larger than normal penis at a young age, how could the mom not think about it? Ultimately, we are wired, in spite of other forms of attraction, towards physical attraction. Big boobs are big boobs at any age. Big penises are big penises at any age. Maturity and self control is learning to be on top of these things and figuring out how to move past it.