Is it normal when...

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The i guess you can say passion? Leaves a relationship theres not way it can come back? When i first met this guy i waited for him to be over his ex for almost 9 months and and toward the end i get an email from the ex telling me they had sex. He told him i was nothing to him an all this bullcrap. And that really hurt . Couple months later he asked me out and i said idk . Couple days later i said yes . 3 months later i broke up with him . N hes been waiting to be with me ever since n everytime we try it just doesnt work . My feelings arent there . Am i holdin on to something that just wont last even tho i love him? Love cant hold a relationship together . Its been almost 4 years since then and all we done is fight n i have just been doin me . And hurting him alot . Is it possible i just feel bad for him ? That after i heard about the ex my feelings went away? Will they ever come back or should i just let go

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  • DanishGirl
    11 years ago

    gtfo now! Your a perfect example of how relationships are ruined after a betrayal. You will never trust him again. The betrayal seems to have always been in the back of your mind and it's normal that your feelings for him have gone away. They won't come back. You can try but your wasting your time. I would move on. Life is to short and obviously he isn't the one for you.

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  • otisslang
    12 years ago

    relationships suck. but wether you kno it or not he broke ur heart wen he did that. thats never an email u should get. ever. no excuse. as much as u want to forgive him ull probably never let yourself. he fucked up nd u both kno it. so ull never fix it 100%. sryyyy. ive been there so i kno. actually like almost all the same time frames and everything lol.

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  • kellstar
    13 years ago

    Let it go and find someone else, love isn't meant to be like that. U will be much happier with a new man

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Trouble. Let it go!

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