Is it normal we rarely have sex?

So to keep it brief, My gf lost her virginity to me about 6 months into the relationship. We didn't live together and became very sexualy active, pretty much everytime we saw each other 3/4 times a week. We then moved in together and she started taking the pill. We have lived together just over a year but must of had sex maybe 5 times in that year?

Everything else in the relationship is as good as ever. She admitted it hurts sometimes and that puts her of (big n small). But she has no sex drive whatsoever anymore and although she shows a lot of affection none of it is sexual affection.

Wadafuq do I do? We have spoken several times, she gets upset and says she needs to try more, in which every time goes back to the same.

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Comments ( 13 )
  • Gspyder

    She should try a different birth control. She should probably go talk to her dr about it, they will know more than we will

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  • TexasRED

    Might be a side effect of "the pill". Clever pharmacists maybe think destroying sex drive is a form of birth control

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    • mysistersshadow

      Yet its not pharmacists that create or perscribe them. Very confusing situation.

      For OP don't know what to tell you I don't really crave sex either sometimes I do it but honestly its usually out of boredom or I'm drunk feeling different about it. If shes having pain she should discuss it with her obgyn there may be something going on that can be fixed.

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      • PeacefulThinking

        Pain during sex is a sign of endometriosis. She should get checked just in case.

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  • BOB&IEP

    She is a Perfect Women to Try my Pussy Eating Tutorial, I do not mean this as a Boast but within an Hour & a 1/2 if she still feels the same wayshe needs to see a Doctor .

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  • Poes

    Tell her that she must masturbate your dick until you cum if she no longer feels like sex!

    tell her that you have needs and she should tend to them!

    I think she is getting it on the side when you are at work!

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  • COCK2BIG

    Just BOINK the ever living shit out of her ass , literally

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  • Zeus_

    Tell her to leave. Get her out of there.

    Never, ever, ever make a girlfriend out of a virgin. You need to dump her. She needs more experiences of her own.

    Get her out of there, NOW!!!!

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  • Akell

    Birth control makes you lose your sex drive and sometimes makes it hurt really bad. Tell her to talk to her doctor. There's lots of other options for her.

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  • IMissMary

    So you move her in so you can have more sex, she gets on the pill as not to get pregnant from more sex but you end up having less sex.

    Oh how the Universe Mocks us and plays with our emotions.

    Now your'e in a situation with interesting choices.

    Live with it in agony aka like a Married person
    Break up
    Get off the pill [and have a baby]

    None seem to appealing yet this is the corner you are in....good luck.

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    • Myghoul2099

      idk it could be worse.

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      • IMissMary

        Yeah he could be married to her with 5 kids.

        Of course the door is always open for him to do just that....

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  • Fall_leaves

    If she's not turned on it's going to hurt, the vagina expands and self lubricates during intercourse when sexually aroused. If she has a low libido it could very well be caused by the pill.

    I've been on the pill twice. I don't have any desire to go back on it. You should talk to her and see if she would mind trying alternative contraceptive methods and going off the pill.

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