Is it normal violent sex fantasies

My whole life i've had somewhat violent sexual fantasies ever since the age of 7-8 and have been turned on by pain.

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55% Normal
Based on 215 votes (119 yes)
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  • ¥DangerousMind¥

    I am kinda the same way

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  • college

    Personally, I don't think is normal, but I know that it's not uncommon, which is why there are many stores that sell whips, chains, handcuffs, etc. for people similar to yourself.

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    • like abusive torture. non consenting abuse and physical punishment

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      • RomeoDeMontague

        It is called S&M.

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  • peterr

    I don't care to inflict pain or suffer it. But if you do, go for it. Consent must be mutual.

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  • Mersaphe

    Maybe you're a natural masochist (one who derives pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from pain or humiliation). Or maybe you have a variety of different fetishes that manifest themselves in your fantasies. Don't worry about it, I also have violent fantasies. Normal sex to me just seems kind of boring and bland. But when I use my imagination and get creative I come up with all sorts of crazy situations, most of which are either violent or eccentric (like I'm the richest man in the world and have a collection of exotic wild animals). I say do whatever you feel like. Nobody has the right to say what you should or shouldn't feel excited or stimulated by. And if you still feel this way, check out the BDSM community. There is a large underground scene of fetishists who will literally be turned on by everything, from legs and feet to taking pies to the face to burping. Maybe your neighbor has a fetish you don't know about, it's more common than you might think. So don't feel ashamed, rather embrace those feelings

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  • StrawberryTurtle

    at age 7-8?!!woah

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  • Avant-Garde

    Same here.

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  • Energy

    I am the same way. And I find it common/normal.

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  • You are normal.
    Most girls I met like me to be dominant and let me do whatever I want to do with them :-)

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  • healthy-omnipotence

    Absolutely! Many people, including myself, have sadistic/masochistic feelings; violent sex seems lovely <33

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  • JayPr'zBaddest

    Same hereeeee... but I don't think you should have been thinking about sex at 7 or 8 years old lol

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  • bamanthehippy

    I'm kinda the same way lol I like when my bf slaps my ass or bites me a lil and I like it rough. He noticed that I like it a lil violent and says I make new noises that I only make when he's rough. I like it a lot so long as I know it's not out of meanness

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Can I spank you? If you're a girl, that is.

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    • im a 6'3 black man. no thank you

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  • LAgirl427

    Yes I always have violent sex fantasies. Mostly about my sister! I want my sister to eat me out like a hungry man while I scream in pleasure and cum in her mouth and I also have a boyfriend. We never did anything yet but hold hands but I want him to slam me hard against the wall and fuck me hard until I bleed

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    • thats fucking hot

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  • BigPnes

    Supafreak. Supafreaky yaa

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  • robbieforgotpw

    I sometimes have violent dumps. I refer to them as powerdumps

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    • RoseIsabella

      The only pain I'm interested in is the kind I get from not eating enough fiber!

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      • robbieforgotpw

        You'll love my response to your comment about not wanting to be w a chick Rosie

        Plus my response to this post(recent post just look)..Im not the man in the mirror, is this normal?

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