Yeah, I made a comment going in to the subject. My personal belief here is that it's not her that's the problem, it's the parenting that's the problem and she's just responding to the bad parenting with bad or sad behaviors.
She's seventeen and basically a domestic prisoner in her own home...Her teen years are limited and she's at the age where a lot of experiences needed for adulthood come in and she's being banned from having those experiences.
I felt pretty sad seeing this post. I don't envy that girl's position.
Yeah, I think I'm stating the obvious when you should give your child a good amount of freedom at certain ages aswell as a good and healthy amount of rules. Too much freedom away from rules and too much rules restricting freedom will most likely end in disaster. Lol.
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My mom used to be strict when I was young... but as I got older she loosened the reins... I think thats the best way to parent.
im strict with my daughter now but I loosen up on things as she gets older.
iin trying to help daughter with temper so have extreme grounded her
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Yeah, I made a comment going in to the subject. My personal belief here is that it's not her that's the problem, it's the parenting that's the problem and she's just responding to the bad parenting with bad or sad behaviors.
She's seventeen and basically a domestic prisoner in her own home...Her teen years are limited and she's at the age where a lot of experiences needed for adulthood come in and she's being banned from having those experiences.
I felt pretty sad seeing this post. I don't envy that girl's position.
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I have to agree with you... she is most likely rebelling against the ridiculous "rules" at home.
My mom was pretty lenient... when I was a teen basically all I had to do was bring home good grades. And we have a great relationship.
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Yeah, I think I'm stating the obvious when you should give your child a good amount of freedom at certain ages aswell as a good and healthy amount of rules. Too much freedom away from rules and too much rules restricting freedom will most likely end in disaster. Lol.
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*nods*
My mom used to be strict when I was young... but as I got older she loosened the reins... I think thats the best way to parent.
im strict with my daughter now but I loosen up on things as she gets older.
Its a good way to show trust and understanding