Is it normal/true the truth comes out when you’re drinking?
Is it normal or true that when someone is drinking or drunk that what they feel normally comes out more so when drinking?
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Is it normal or true that when someone is drinking or drunk that what they feel normally comes out more so when drinking?
Ditto. My ENFP goddess of physical love had the same BPD disorder. At the 18th month mark, she started playing head games. I left after a couple of days because I knew I had to protect my mind, but it was another two years before I was ready to get back into the game. Whew, that kind of babe steals your soul and you can't even feel it.
Know something? ENFP women are good in the sack; spellbinding actually. I know the chemistry of which you speak. After a year and a half, things start falling apart during the daytime, though. The girlfriend I always felt the most harmony with (but not the most excitement) was an ISTJ. Finally, she dumped me. Fuck, what a disappointment.
*still working on my exoplanet panspermia response for you.
Like cipro says, alcohol lowers inhibitions. It's not for nothing that the Romans had the adage 'In vino veritas'.
There are certainly people who are capable of lying when drunk - just take a look around in any bar where guys are trying to pick up women. But I do think your true character comes to the surface when you're under the influence. Some people turn into rage-filled maniacs, others become blubbering emotional wrecks and so on.
I just fall asleep. Since I'm fundamentally a lazy bastard, that's a pretty accurate reflection of my true character.
"Men and women drink essentially because they like the effect produced by alcohol. The sensation is so elusive that, while they admit it is injurious, they cannot after a time differentiate the true from the false. To them, their alcoholic life seems the only normal one. They are restless, irritable and discontented unless they can again experience the sense of ease and comfort which comes at once by taking a few drinks—drinks which they see others taking with impunity."
Alcoholics Anonymous. --more about alcoholism.