Not sure how my fellow TG here will feel about this but my opinion is this.
If someone wants to be taken more serious as whatever they are trying to present, they need to at least try to look the part.
Some TG pass well, others don't. If someone is at least trying to look like their chosen gender, it is more likely they will be respected as such.
Presentation goes for about everything. If you want to be treated the part, then present yourself as the part.
I have seen some TG who do little to nothing to present as female and I think, "what the hell are you doing?"
I think this makes sense. Personally I just go off how someone presents. Even if the person is very obviously male, if they're wearing female clothes and have girly hair etc then I wouldn't say a word about them using the female bathroom because they obviously are trying their best to live as a woman, even if it isn't working too well. That's their own business and of no threat to me. If they don't look particularly feminine and are still trying then life is probably really tough for them already, and they don't need a earful everytime they try and use the toilet.
If it's someone who is very clearly a man and is dressed like a man, and has made no attempt to look like a woman, and they followed my little girl into the female toilets, then I'd have a huge problem with that and would actually tell them to get out, and if they didn't I would make a complaint to management and quite possibly contact the police. In this scenario I would assume that person to be a sexual predator.
Exactly! Like granted I dont wear makeup and uniform shirts are always male but work with it! Theres always something you can do. If you dont put effort into it frankly I dong respect the transition. I find the middle aged late transitioners are the worst at it. They are usually the ones to be non binary as well wich just pisses me off for some reason.
People if you are trans put some damn effort into yo shit. Making the rest of us look bad!
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Not sure how my fellow TG here will feel about this but my opinion is this.
If someone wants to be taken more serious as whatever they are trying to present, they need to at least try to look the part.
Some TG pass well, others don't. If someone is at least trying to look like their chosen gender, it is more likely they will be respected as such.
Presentation goes for about everything. If you want to be treated the part, then present yourself as the part.
I have seen some TG who do little to nothing to present as female and I think, "what the hell are you doing?"
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I think this makes sense. Personally I just go off how someone presents. Even if the person is very obviously male, if they're wearing female clothes and have girly hair etc then I wouldn't say a word about them using the female bathroom because they obviously are trying their best to live as a woman, even if it isn't working too well. That's their own business and of no threat to me. If they don't look particularly feminine and are still trying then life is probably really tough for them already, and they don't need a earful everytime they try and use the toilet.
If it's someone who is very clearly a man and is dressed like a man, and has made no attempt to look like a woman, and they followed my little girl into the female toilets, then I'd have a huge problem with that and would actually tell them to get out, and if they didn't I would make a complaint to management and quite possibly contact the police. In this scenario I would assume that person to be a sexual predator.
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Exactly! This right here is a very rational response.
Exactly! Like granted I dont wear makeup and uniform shirts are always male but work with it! Theres always something you can do. If you dont put effort into it frankly I dong respect the transition. I find the middle aged late transitioners are the worst at it. They are usually the ones to be non binary as well wich just pisses me off for some reason.
People if you are trans put some damn effort into yo shit. Making the rest of us look bad!
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I knew a couple post-ops who didn't always bother to even shave their faces. Nice ladies but looked a wreck.
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I knew someone like that once. Anx indeed looked like a wreck. Like I I dont get it