I'm not lonely now, but I once went several months without having a real conversation with anyone. I had moved to a new town and didn't know a soul, and I didn't have a job either. Those were rough times. I craved a hug like nobody's business. I tried not to call my old friends all the time because I was respectful of the fact that they had a life, even though I didn't. I tried to occupy my time as much as possible with activities and trips to the library. I did a lot of thinking about how I wanted any future friendships to grow because I always believed that my situation would get better, eventually.
Sounds like my current situation, but i found someone and then lost them in less than a week. Did a number on my emotional center, but i'm hoping there's someone out there that meets my standards and will genuinely appreciate me for who i am.
Is it normal to wonder how people cope being lonely?
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I'm not lonely now, but I once went several months without having a real conversation with anyone. I had moved to a new town and didn't know a soul, and I didn't have a job either. Those were rough times. I craved a hug like nobody's business. I tried not to call my old friends all the time because I was respectful of the fact that they had a life, even though I didn't. I tried to occupy my time as much as possible with activities and trips to the library. I did a lot of thinking about how I wanted any future friendships to grow because I always believed that my situation would get better, eventually.
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Sounds like my current situation, but i found someone and then lost them in less than a week. Did a number on my emotional center, but i'm hoping there's someone out there that meets my standards and will genuinely appreciate me for who i am.
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Is everything ok now?
This makes me want to hug you now.
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I think this is one of my favorite answers.
I hope your friendships grew just like you planned So nice.