I've been lonely for the past few years. Even when my friends come over and hang out, I still feel lonely. I don't know why. I used to drink or eat my feelings (but it doesn't help and I could've become a alcoholic if I wasn't careful). Please don't resort to drugs or alcohol!
I think everyone's loneliness is going to be different depending on their situations and past. I've noticed that mine tends to hang around, then disappear for a few days, and then comes back suddenly. It's weird because I feel emotionless when it happens, but I also feel this dull pain in my heart.
There is no real remedy to get rid of loneliness (or at least to my understanding). What you can do though is try to hang out / surround yourself with people who care for you. I normal snack on chocolate or drink coffee while listening to classical or jazz music. I just tend to deal with it because I can't laugh it off (wish I could) nor hide it (I'm bad at hiding my feelings). However, when ever someone asks me if I'm okay, I always say I'm fine.
I really hope that if you're asking this because you, yourself is lonely, that it gets better soon. It really sucks and I wish I could always be there for those lonely people so I can give them a big hug. Sorry for the long comment by the way.
@ Dizzee,hope to meet u in person and hang out together and talk about what are those feelings that drives you to loneliness.I've been a lonely person since I was a child.Dealing with this feelings is really very hard because u cant get rid of it even u are sorrounded with friends & family.Its like it was planted deep within you.What I've been doing now is just dont focus with your feelings.Do something that makes you busy and feel great for yourself.I wish I could just give a big Hug to those lonely people as I need too.Cheers!!!
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I've been lonely for the past few years. Even when my friends come over and hang out, I still feel lonely. I don't know why. I used to drink or eat my feelings (but it doesn't help and I could've become a alcoholic if I wasn't careful). Please don't resort to drugs or alcohol!
I think everyone's loneliness is going to be different depending on their situations and past. I've noticed that mine tends to hang around, then disappear for a few days, and then comes back suddenly. It's weird because I feel emotionless when it happens, but I also feel this dull pain in my heart.
There is no real remedy to get rid of loneliness (or at least to my understanding). What you can do though is try to hang out / surround yourself with people who care for you. I normal snack on chocolate or drink coffee while listening to classical or jazz music. I just tend to deal with it because I can't laugh it off (wish I could) nor hide it (I'm bad at hiding my feelings). However, when ever someone asks me if I'm okay, I always say I'm fine.
I really hope that if you're asking this because you, yourself is lonely, that it gets better soon. It really sucks and I wish I could always be there for those lonely people so I can give them a big hug. Sorry for the long comment by the way.
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@ Dizzee,hope to meet u in person and hang out together and talk about what are those feelings that drives you to loneliness.I've been a lonely person since I was a child.Dealing with this feelings is really very hard because u cant get rid of it even u are sorrounded with friends & family.Its like it was planted deep within you.What I've been doing now is just dont focus with your feelings.Do something that makes you busy and feel great for yourself.I wish I could just give a big Hug to those lonely people as I need too.Cheers!!!
I hope you are happy because you deserve to be. I love your answer thanks.